11 Lies Thai Prostitutes Are Telling You

Last updated: December 11th, 2018 | in Thai Girls

Lying Thai Prostitutes

You can’t trust Thai people. You just cannot trust them. They’re all the same. Even Asians say you cannot trust the Thais. Never believe what they’re telling you, every third sentence is a lie. Jesus Christ, why are those people lying so much?

I’m sure you know what I’m talking about. And still, there are so many guys who still believe all sorts of crap their Thai girlfriends are telling them. And more often than not that would be their Thai bar girlfriends. Yes that’s right, even though everyone seems to have heard and seen it all, there are and always will be guys who don’t notice the lies they’re being told by prostitutes all for the one short-term or long-term purpose of getting their money. And then at one point they fall in love with their hooker and stop even questioning things.

They think (and even say it aloud) that she’s different than the others, care about them and wouldn’t have any reason to tell them the untruth. Maybe it’s also the way they’re saying it, with a nice and charming smile on their face and the fact that their arguments and explanations are always convincing.

Here are 11 of the most common lies you get told by Thai prostitutes and if you hadn’t read this, you would probably believe it or not even think about that it could potentially be a lie:

1. Thai Prostitute doesn’t tell you her real name

Thai people only use nicknames in everyday life and so they would introduce themselves as Gung instead of Supaporn or sometimes a shortened version of their formal name, i.e. Nam or Fon instead of Namfon. These nicknames are usually given by their parents and never get changed – except in some occasions when they deal with Farangs. The other day I met a girl who introduced herself as Ploy (พลอย) and as I said oh that’s quite a common name isn’t it she said yes, and it’s also easier for Farangs to pronounce than her “real nickname” which is Bplʉ̂m (ปลื้ม). She wasn’t even a hooker, by the way.

2. Thai Prostitute doesn’t tell you where she’s really from

So now that you got her nickname, whether that’s the real one or just the one for Farangs, of course the second question is usually “where you from?”. So you tell her and throw the ball back asking her so where are you from? She laughs and says “haha, I’m from Thailand!” You smile and say you know that but which province. An estimated 70% of the bargirls are from the poor northern or northeastern provinces and sometimes, when they feel that you “know much” (rúu yǝ́, รู้เยอะ), they don’t want to admit that and just say Bangkok. Later when you find out that she’s really from Sisaket and confront her with it she might say something like that she misunderstood you and thought you were asking where she was living.

3. Thai Prostitute lies about how long she’s been working in the bar

Have you ever met a Thai girl who told you on the first night that she’d been working in the bar for more than three weeks? And that she likes it? If you did, you were probably lucky for her to be honest as you don’t seem like the typical gullible tourist to her. The girls know that Farangs like the idea of meeting girls who have just recently started working in the bar in the hope of them to not see her as the typical prostitute and start falling in love with her, paying her bar fine every night or even make her stop working at the bar at all and paying them a “salary” (ngǝn dʉan, เงินเดือน) every month. Here again, when the Farang finds out she’s been hooking for more than a couple of weeks her excuse would be that she worked at a different bar before or at the karaoke in her home town.

4. Thai Prostitute doesn’t know how much for the bar fine

She says no one’s paid her bar fine yet because of no. 3.

5. Thai Prostitute tells you her wrong age

We always admire how the girls here look younger than they actually are. And they know that – because we tell them. So she says she’s 23 when she really is 28. Bargirls usually think they will meet their customers only once and so it doesn’t matter if they lie about their age. Another thing worth mentioning here is that many bar girls have children and come to work in the bars because their Thai guys have left them. You wouldn’t usually assume she has a baby just by how young and childish she looks – until she comes out of the bathroom at your place and you discover the stretch marks on her stomach.

6. Thai Prostitute “no have boyfriend”

She says she doesn’t have a boyfriend which is usually another typical lie as she’s in a relationship with a Thai guy and even lives with him together. He doesn’t have a problem with her working in the bar and going for short time with customers, usually he even tells her to do so and she would pay for his bills. These Thai guys usually don’t make much money, if they work at all they make less than 10,000 Baht a month and that’s clearly not sufficient to pay the lease for their nice motorcycle (4,000-6,000 Baht a month), their mobile phone, bottles of whiskeys and sometimes even drugs.

7. Thai Prostitute doesn’t feel well

You had a great night at her bar, paid for a lot of drinks and of course also her bar fine. You take her back to your hotel and after one hour of romancing, all of a sudden she starts coughing. “Mâi sàbai”, she says. Not feel well or how we would say: I’m sick. Strange you think, she was fine all night and seemed as active and talkative in the bar as usual. You suggest to walk with her to the pharmacy but she says no, it’s late already and she wants you to sleep. She will go back to her room and she got medicine there, too. “See you tomorrow na.” You’re still confused but don’t worry too much as you’re really tired and just agree. Do you even think about the possibility that this was her seventh lie this evening?

8. Thai Prostitute doesn’t let you see her room

After a few months seeing her and regularly paying her bar fine you probably want to know more about her private life. So you ask her if you can see her room on her day off. She says she is shy because her room is very small and dirty. Or it’s too far away. Or even in a dangerous area. But more typical these days is that she tells you she’s staying with her friend who doesn’t like her to bring men to the room. From my experience, in 50% of the cases this is true as they’re trying to split costs for the room rent but at least in half of the cases it’s just another lie as she’s staying with her Thai boyfriend.

9. Thai Prostitute “stop go with other Farang”

So one day you come to her bar and she’s not there. You ask one of the girls where she is and they say it’s her day off. The following day you ask her why she hasn’t told you it’s her day off, you two could have spent the whole day together. She says she only knows one day in advance when she got a day off. You ask her why she didn’t call you, she says telephone money finish.

A few days later your friend tells you he saw her going with another Farang the other day. You confront her with that and she says they only went for dinner. “He not boom boom me”, she says. “He old and lonely, we only eat together. Why you always think I lie? I love you. I have you, only one.”

10. Thai Prostitute needs money

Her brother is sick and needs to buy medicine. Her dad can’t pay the lease of the motorcycle this month. Her son needs to buy clothes and books for school. The water buffalo has died. And she kindly asks you for support because she “no have money“. These stories might not always be a lie but sometimes it turns out that it’s not her dad in upcountry Isaan who can’t pay the lease for his motorcycle, but her Thai boyfriend. Or the medicine that her brother needs isn’t actually her real brother but just a close friend of her and the medicine he so urgently needs is called ya-ba (yaa-bâa ยาบ้า). If you find out later and confront her with it she might say: “I told you already. You never understand me.”

11. Thai Prostitute loves you

When a bargirl tells you that she love you too much, that’s not because of your character but because she appreciates your financial support. Never forget why these girls come to work in the bar in the first place: They do it because they want to earn money and not because they want to find the love of their lives. Sure they’d be happy to stop working if you take care of her and pay her a monthly salary so she’ll keep on telling you “I love you Teerak. Thank you for everything you do for me”. Just try and stop giving her money and ask her to take up a job in the mall, supermarket or cafe. Bar girls are lazy and once they got used to their lifestyle it’s very unlikely that they are willing to change it for you. Unless you find one who really just started working in the bars 2 weeks ago.

In the end it comes down to the thing that Thai prostitutes always try to tell you what you want to hear, rather than the truth which might often lead to conflicts and someone potentially losing face or in this case even worse (!) – missing out on potential money.

ANON
ANON
I was in Thailand for 3 months which was 4 months ago, had many Short times with Bar girls/ Massage girls/ Freelance and a few Long times with some girls, But in the latter stage of my trip one amazingly beautiful but not perfect Bar Girl got my Attention .. we often went out to eat , proper GF experience she let me do anything with her and would call me ‘sweet man’ I long time with her for 10 days in a row before I had to return to the UK. Now i have many Thai girls on my… Read more »
John
John
Having lived here 3 years I have experienced most of the above as it is part of everyday life for them and one very important thing I want to add to the above is that because of the lies, all of the bar staff and all of the family will also be involved in the lies. The other bar girls in the bar will back up whatever cover story she has and if your the 5th farang she has brought home to her house in the village in the space of month, they will all also cover for her and… Read more »
Anonymous
Anonymous
How about “Your a good man” has anyone heard that one? I wish I would have read this article before going to Thailand. I was in a really shitty part of my life and I didn’t care about anything. I had gone to train Muay Thai but was battling an injury after buying the ticket. Needless to say the injury didn’t quite heal and after one kick to the midsection during sparring I was left in Thailand for a month with nothing to do. Or so I thought. I hooked up with a girl on tinder. She was genuinely a… Read more »
Manny Dean
Manny Dean
I have lived here many years. This writer is 100% accurate. However, the Thai lies don’t stop with the ladys. It also includes Thai health care. I recently had a injury on my leg. Went to Vachira Phuket Hospital. I had no health insurance. I stay in this hospital 1 night for observation. They billed me 34,000 baht. I asked them what will they do if I don’t pay the crazy bill and they said they would call police and put me in jail. While I was in that hospital I made buddy’s with a Thai man who was visiting… Read more »
alex ferdman
alex ferdman

well, my 2 cents.
I am old fart so my experience is all chicks are sluts and/or prostitutes and men are just number in their book.

Seve
Seve
European, living in Th > 12 years, happily married with a Thai, perceiving Th as home. Quote on top. What a monstrous prejudice; ‘prevented me from proceeding with the article, the more as the header suggests an issue already told 100-times somewhere else. True, Thais like most Asians tell plenty of ‘soft lies’, mainly to not offend people or, yes, keep face. Westerners, full of self-esteem and superiority don’t lie any less; however, they do it for selfish reason only. ‘Find one single Western newspaper, TV-channel, politician, name it that does not permanently lie. Find any Western woman of comparable… Read more »
Loanshark
Loanshark

You can’t turn a whore into a housewife.

Ulf
Ulf

That’s true but you can always turn a housewife into a whore ;)

John Smith
John Smith

And to make matters worse no all prostitutes operate out of beer bars, a lot of the clever ones work as waitresses or hotel staff because they know they can fool you even more.

Ivor
Ivor
Three nights before leaving Chiang Mai, just walking around, with less than 1000B in my pocket, was approached by bar girl. Had a couple of drinks with her and explained no problem with drinks but not interested short-time/long time has I was only walking. But to me, she was still friendly and not pushy. She spoke good English, so we talked a lot. Through photos I knew she had lived in Japan and had a child. Went back to my hotel alone. Thought about how well we had got on, and decided to go back next night. I paid for… Read more »
Ssuperfirehorsee
Ssuperfirehorsee
Yes…..you are being set up for the long haul or “being the LIFE CHANGER” Farang. My first experience with a bar girl lasted 16 days and nights, she did not let me out of h and her sight. I am a well dressed self employed male and she hooked me. Five trips and nine months later, I realise I am just a customer and she was playing the long haul game. She started asking for money weekly. I gave her some for months but after the last trip when I found out she was working another man the same way… Read more »
Dennis Smith
Dennis Smith
The way to do it, Go with them home to their family, meet the parent, sisters brothers etc. And if they stay home and you will feed them with money, ( not to much) the chances are that you will be ok.But you never know…Never build a house around the family, doesn’t matter how nice the family are. If you are going to Build a house, let her buy the land, much cheaper for her to buy, Lease the land from her for 30 years, and whatever you build is yours for 30 years. Then if still together after 30… Read more »
Ian
Ian
A really strange and not-a-sense article. These are the big lies? It is normal to this business not to say your name, not your age, not the place you come from. I also many times lie the same if I talk with a stranger or o younger about my age. What’s the big deal? And to tell you details about her personal life and living place?! Are you serious? In 99% of the cases, who is asking is another drank and horny guy who only wants sex in lower price. Why do you think they should have the smallest esteem… Read more »
Blackgoat
Blackgoat
You didn’t understand the article Ian.. It’s not about sex workers not telling you their real name. It’s about Thai prostitutes that pretend to be more than a regular hooker you just met, and try to get under your skin by taking advantage of your good nature. They pretend to care about you and take it as far as they can, if you’re gullible enough. This article was written to help those fellows who believe they have a real thai girlfriend, by pointing out the signs. I’ve been to prostitutes where the relationship remains strictly professional, and I don’t respect… Read more »
Ian
Ian
The fact is that you are talking very simple lies everybody has to say in order to protect himself/herself from a stranger he/she meets at the bar. You don’t make a revelation here. And you know something, this is business, they make their, most times, hard living. Need to protect themselves. If somebody insists dating them and be kind with them maybe they continue the lie maybe not. Depends on the person and her good or bad experience she had in the past. But most of them know how these stories end, after one two weeks you will go back… Read more »
andy
andy
sometimes bad experiences lead to mistrust I have a Thai girlfriend who worked in a bar I know her real name and I have stayed in her apartment and her home village with her family I have given her money but not always and she never asked I have now visited her nine times in eighteen months.. Just remember not all are the same.. Yes we have some problems but I know everything about get and her family.. Like I said I have stayed there many times for weeks at a time in her apartment and with her mama and… Read more »
Alfred E Newman
Alfred E Newman

Andy … 4 months later, is it the same story for you? ;) … just curious.

S V
S V

I’m heartened to read this and realise that the girl I met didn’t say any of these things to me- except taking until the third day to tell me she was originally from Cambodia. She did actually take me to her flat- which showed clearly she was living alone. Kind of increases my faith in her.

experience a lot
experience a lot

wait for a while lies not start yet:) they are very patient and make carefull planning how to get the best money from You

Pete
Pete
I actually got e tangled with a Thai girl near 20 years ago. Yeah she Was quite the bullshit artist at 1st. She probably went with other customers behind my back in the beginning. But we moved in together for 4-5 months, then we went to Bangrak and got married, I was over there for my job for about another year and a half, when I left Thailand I brought her with me. I was told by everyone that you can take the girl out of the bar but you can’t take the bar out of the girl. Here it’s… Read more »
Blackgoat
Blackgoat

Hey Pete, happy to hear such stories sometimes have happy endings, really.
But let me ask you a question, if you’re happily married since 20 years, why are you visiting this website? Why would you even feel the need to participate in this discussion?
I honestly also used to think such girls are victims, and some of them are.. But the vast majority are void of any feelings and wouldn’t give a damn about the guy who can “free them of their circumstance”.

Blackgoat
Blackgoat
Let me share my story – so I am one of the stupid farang who actually fell in love with a thai prostitute and suffered because of it. I met her when visiting a rather high class prostitute place in Bangkok 3 years ago. I sort of kept in touch with her on Facebook, and the second time I visited Bangkok 2 years ago I took her on an island with me for 2 weeks. She didn’t ask for money, I just paid for her hotel and her food and we had a great time. I was really under the… Read more »
Peter
Peter

Man, just look at it from the bright side, you had a 21 years old hottie for 85euro/day? I say thats a damn good price :)

Jorges DiFranco
Jorges DiFranco

That piece was spot on . Don’t feel bad about being duped . It’s okay .And the fact really is we lie to ourselves .

Ian
Ian

All this period you haven’t checked for another girl in Tinder, in bars or elsewhere?
Why your own actions weren’t a big lie to a girl who trusted you and left her country to visit you but it’s only hers who actually is a professional who makes her living

Blackgoat
Blackgoat

Hmm maybe you should read what I wrote again Ian.. I mentioned I think there’s stuff to blame myself for. However, I talked to her every day for a year, never cheated on her during that year, while she was saying she doesn’t work as a prostitute any more.. So try again to logically deduce whose actions are the bigger lie Ian. Otherwise you sound belligerent

Ian
Ian
I just wanted to continue the discussion by trying to fill the empty spots which imho exist in the story. If you were good to her and stayed so long with her then you could expect a better attitude by her. But did you help her the time she was alone in her country? Do you really think to order sometimes food for her and send her 300 was a real help enough for her to live? How did you expect to make her living. Did she ver promise to you to let her job? And if you really felt… Read more »
LiveLifeFreely
LiveLifeFreely
The way some folks mention Indian guys here is so negative. I am an Indian guy & I really took care of the girls in terms of money when I visited Bangkok in 2015. And plan to do so when I revisit next month. I usually tipped them 1000 baht at a time for long time fun & 500 tip for short time and also never bothered bargaining, everything is so cheap anyway. The girls were happy and they made me happy! Some of my Indian friends do the same while some of my American/ Mexican friends don’t. You might… Read more »
thaifuck
thaifuck
i have been with over a dozen prostitutes and a few normal girls in thailand and no, this is not an accurate picture. 1. One pros told me that she is “new” and i did notice that she was not quite “fast” with the whole process like other girls. 2. at least 2 girls told me they have boyfriends and one told me she doesn’t tell him about her extra-hassle. 3. all of them knew the bar fine. 4. i always ask for id and not their age. 5. we negotiated payment “before hand” and only one girl asked for… Read more »
Mike
Mike

lol. Such human nature that one of the things repeated by so many Thais is, “I hate liars”… When they themselves lie so much. Though part of it is it’s accepted to lie to farangs in the culture…just as it’s almost accepted to steal from foreigners in other cultures… though I’m sure they lie to one another as well. I’m sure many here have read “Private dancer”…. if you have not,do so… very well written account on this topic. If you’ve fallen for a Thai prostitute, you’ll relate…lol

Sekshin8
Sekshin8
In any case it would be sensible, just as in other countries, to not give too much personal information. I hope you didn’t think they should just give up real names, real residence, where their family lives, how much she makes, how long shes worked and whether or not she’s going with other goes immediately. Just as with workers in other countries they have to look out for themselves too. It’s a bit silly to expect them to be an open book of honesty in an industry of prostitution. I think in this case you should look at what your… Read more »
John
John
Many of the stories I have read in the comments are true but hell not all Thai woman are bargirls I have been married to a Thai lady for three years now and she has a job as a manager at a electronics company . She works and earns her own salary and many times she takes care of me regarding paying for the motor vehicle which is in my name. I am fortunate that I met her because she owned a house with four apartments and suggested we stay at the house . I helped renovate the house and… Read more »
Kuolen Nauruun
Kuolen Nauruun
Good stories and comments , I have experience , I have been married to a bargirl for 11 years and we have 3 children. I took the first bargirl I met and I not get disappointed with her. Maybe I was lucky:). And I am 26 years older than she. She is very beautiful . She could be model or whatever. Of course I have money but not so much. Important is also how you behave and how nice you are. I am polite and help she every day . I never fight with she . I always say only… Read more »
What goes around comes around
What goes around comes around
I play them at their own game… I have lived in Thailand about 10 years now and I don’t bother with bar girls but I look at dating sites and choose 30 to 40 age group tell them I,m looking for wife . We meet have coffee and most are happy to go to short time Hotel after the coffee… One or two might ask if I can give them money after but most don’t. I will boom boom them 2 or 3 time over the next week or so then move on.Maybe when they was younger they had money… Read more »
New Superhuman
New Superhuman

I lived in Thailand for two years and dated hundreds of girls. Your situation is one in a million.

neva e nuff pumpin n bumpin
neva e nuff pumpin n bumpin

prices were high in 2001 and have keep on going up.
them whores dont know how to fuck either.
only sorry premature ejaculators and fools like thailand.

New Superhuman
New Superhuman

15 years ago a beautiful girl would go with you all night and day for $50, feel happy and do whatever she could to please you. Wealthy tourists flooding into the country changed all that. If you like short time and don’t mind paying near Western prices, you’re good. The old Thailand died long ago. Even Cambodian girls are spoiled rotten. Good luck with the scams and attitude.

paul scotland
paul scotland

l have been too Thailand many times and most thailladys l been with are very good in bed you must be going with the wrong girls or maybe your no use in bed l think your bullshiter

pau
pau

what sort of name is that you have any way only fools go Thailand its the best place in the world l am no fool l do how too enjoy my self l don’t think you do you sound like a very person you need too get a life before you die

Kel
Kel
The 11 points are really good and some stories from commenters are great too. If you are lucky enough to take a girl from one of the less commercial beer bars in low season, which is where the girl has maybe made a packet and is thinking about returning home soon anyway (to see her kids etc) you can even get a few freebies off her, after all, if you’re young, handsome, are prepared to take the same girl a few nights then she may take a shine to you because after all, your accommodation is always going to be… Read more »
Eccrono
Eccrono
The first time I had a stay in Pattaya I had a few super nice nights with a lady from a massage salon. She always works from 10 am till 24 pm, and was very glad to have time for dancing and being free. We kept in contact with Whatsapp until I came back to Thailand last month. She was quite different this time; having a behavior as if we were married. Breath taking! No go to Walking Street this time, no evening walk on the prommenade, no go to exhibition-bars, … but pooling (bearing!), restaurant, shopping, and lots of… Read more »
Eccrono
Eccrono
Do these 11 rules also fit for massage girls? I wonder. These girls also do a lot for the money but have not the same behavior as bar-girls. My girl was honest about her origin, 8 hours of driving to the North. About her family, having 2 kids and showing me the photos. About her room, living toghether with her friend, a girl also working in her massagebar. About being working there already for years. About her age. But I didnot believe her when she sayed: I love you. However the boomboom was like a girlfriend, natural, but no professional… Read more »
Kel_Solaar
Kel_Solaar

Sounds good but it would put me off as soon as she started saying “I love you”. I like the one’s that keep it light and fun.

patrick darwen
patrick darwen

Get over it iv been married to a philippiana for 7years they groom you and do every thing for you then its hell money money money same shit …family hospital power bill you know the stress is debilitating

stranger
stranger
An old man near nana plaza bangkok took me to this brothel and i chose a thick girl there. the deal was 2000 bahts for a night. we went to my hotel i paid for taxi and some beers she wanted on the way. After doing it once she carried on with her sad story and asked me to give her 10000 bahts. which i refused so she refused to do again and didn’t talk to me for 3 hours lying next to me. Finally i told her to leave and she kept refusing after that i told her to… Read more »
matt333
matt333

Seriously, you’ve got to be retarded to fall in love with a hooker.

paul
paul

your right ?

Mookieson
Mookieson
Don’t go out with bar whores first mistake .everything you guys are staying very true 110% right . Bar girl good for one thing and one night forget them . So go out with nice older lady’s in thailand take care of you and make sure come from a nice family . A lot of them out there .thai man treat there woman like shit and the ones who are not whores and prostitutes are looking for kind man to take care of and they will take care of in many why. I know I have one for 5 years… Read more »
Mark Waugh
Mark Waugh

I have an Indian friend who visits Thailand all the time. Indians are cheapest and shrewdest bunch of guys you will ever meet. They lie as well as the bar girls and actually make some of the girls fall for them. According to him, if a Thai girl can pass the Indian test ( no extra dough till things don’t start to fall in place ) she’s a keeper.

Terryofcrete
Terryofcrete

Lots of Thai bar girls will not go with a man from India. They may not get paid or there could be 3 guys waiting in the hotel room !

Ch3nnaiDa
Ch3nnaiDa

I’m an Indian and I agree this… I have a thai friend who’s a Thai hooker. She doesn’t fall in any of the above points. At least to me she seems sweet and honest. I spoke with her and she complained about Indians.. If any Indian reading this then please realise that hooker is also human. Thai girls consider that as a profession. Please respect them at least for the pleasure you get from them. Please pay them as agreed.

Ying
Ying

Indian guys have no respect for women, they smell a lot and don’t wash..stay away from Thailand, India is big enough and many native girls!

Dr Mark
Dr Mark
Mookieson (words seem from a Thai woman) makes a good point – one I have heard repeatedly from my Thai wife and other “legit” Thai women. The Farang idiots who really “fall in love” with postitutes do really open themselvesup for heartache and a royal screwing. But what about us “thrill seekers”? I have posted here before about my experiences. In the past year I finally divorced my “hi-so” Thai wife, not because she is not a good person but because she decided that we dont need sex three years ago. Of course some of that is my fault. But… Read more »
David
David

Just when you think you’ve seen it all and it can’t get any crazier … along comes a guy who non-nonchalantly admits he pays his prostitute daughter for sex !! Only last night I met a fellow Aussie married to a Hi-So and he asked me to fuck his wife so he could go with a freelancer who had taken a fancy to him in the nightclub … Pretty boring by Thai standards. I have to agree that the peasant prostitutes are a lot more fun and give a better experience.

Mookieson
Mookieson

You guys hang out with shit and will get shit back . Plenty of good thai lady’s than are looking for love to take care of you. Yes these people are poor and need money. Good ones don’t ask for money and if you love them just give a few hundred dollars a month not even a dinner out in the USA or Europe . But don’t date whores or sluts they will suck your blood out. Just use you big head not your little one.

Ruby
Ruby

All true about from No.1 and No.2, Every Thai hooker always tells me Isaan. It helps their story of povery

Dr. Mark
Dr. Mark
As usual these posts are informative and give an accurate picture of personal experiences. I have been around Thailand a very long time (1964 on) and now have a retirement visa and a nice house in Bangkok. I am married to a “hi-so” Thai which has advantages and disadvantages. Just as a point of reference this “hi-so” lady from a connected family with money got divorces after a 15 year marriage, then worked Thai Friendly to hook 5 Farang (European and Kiwi) to take her on holiday to Singapore and expensive resorts. Of course they got the full treatment, and… Read more »
Gener Equality
Gener Equality
You will not understand Thai women if you do not understand their religion. 1. Life is suffering. To have “real” Feelings for others, is to invite suffering. 2 For Buddhists, love does not exist. Love is a feeling that must be overcome. In the monistic thinking “all is on”, separate objects are called “Maya” and do not exist. Buddhist love means to release all living beings from suffering. 3. Thai women are born as women as they have bad Karma. If they help their parents economicly, they will get a chance to get reborn as men in their next life.… Read more »
TARS
TARS

So, what do they tell their parents? Do their parent allow them to work in a bar?

Ying
Ying

Seeing a bar girl young enough to be your daughter or granddaughter even, yeah that’s real smart.

Thai Boy
Thai Boy

“you never understand me! Really!” This sentence is classic after u knew the thai girl for a long time

Johnny
Johnny

I think there are actually a lot of decent bargirls out there with good hearts. The question you have to ask yourself is can you really or do you really want to be with a girl that has literally slept with thousands of men? Think about how many 747 airplanes she could fill with the guys she has slept with. If you are ok with this then my hat is off to you.

Herwig
Herwig

I have a Thailady, which has a daughter from me. Now 5 years old. Ibhath every month dont mind, if the lady hide something, but she take god care of the daughter. I pay my 15.000 Bhath every month and made them a house where to stay. I visit them very often, but I have my private
live, so lies dont disturb me, as long I see the daughter feel well

James
James

What the hell do you expect from a whore, other than sex?
Passion? Honesty? Love? Those are each independent variables that have zero bearing on a whore’s relationship with you.

rh8x@hotmail.com
I retired young (38) and never had time for a traditional social life, so I decided to visit Thailand for a 3 week vacation. I’m not a drinker or partier but I’m fine in a bar. It was still early in the evening and I noticed some very young and pretty women making their way around the bar. One caught my eye. Within a minute or two she was standing in front of me smiling. We were out of the bar in less than 5 minutes of meeting one another. She and I went to dinner and she mentioned it… Read more »
Johnny
Johnny
Reality check. She left and showered because she went somewhere to meet a regular guy she sleeps with. Dont be a fool. Find a regular girl. Trust me. I dated a bargirl for almost a year. She was a nice girl but she still would whore around some. She wasnt sure I would stay with her so she keeps in contact with them. You would never know if your girl was seeing somebody. My best advice is if you cant see your bargirl you dont know what shes doing. Shes probably getting Fu***d. Its hard to trust a non-bargirl. Bargirl… Read more »
Kitty-licker
Kitty-licker

I live in a village near chiang rai and there are a number of girls here who are getting regular monthly payments from guys in various countries. One girl is on 60,000 baht a month from five diffetent fools; all of whom believe they are the only one and come once a year to see thier ‘girlfriend’ when they spend loads more cash on them. A fool and his money are easily parted, and there’s nothing more powerful than pussy to make it happen. I guess that’s why I’m broke!

Matt Doorman
Matt Doorman

lol… funny. God for her! Did you talk with her?.. 300,000 bt a month? Even I am not stupid enough to send monthly payments to a girl I see a week of year. Imma give this one as a won to her…

Steve
Steve
Funny thing lying about their age. My girlfriend told me she was 23 and last August was her birthday. She had a birthday party and I bought a cake for her with candles, 24 of them. My friend from Australia who also had his Thai girlfriend with him was sitting next to me, and he motioned me to come outside with him. Went outside and he told me his Thai girlfriend said my girl was only 19 turning 20 and everyone thought it was funny that I had 24 candles on the cake. Not being able to speak much Thai,… Read more »
Ste F
Ste F
Very interesting about Thai s . First of all if anyone is serious about falling in love with a Thai lady then it’s a must to learn the Thai language . Not all Thai girls work in bars or sell sex for money . Plenty of them work in shops and banks . Just like in the UK we have hookers but not all English girls are hookers . Thailand is a playground for farang keep it that way . Stop falling in love with hookers stop giving away cash to them They are women with no or very little… Read more »
TIT (This is Thailand)
TIT (This is Thailand)
I’ve been cumming and going (cumming due to the girls and going because of poo pa laa) for more than 14 years and now live here. I’ve heard the question ‘how do you know when a Thai is lying’? Answer – because they’re saying something. I met a bar girl in Chiang Mai one time and asked all the usual reasons why she might be working there. Every question- sick brother NO -child to support NO -Debt NO….and so on. I exhausted ALL the reasons why girls usually work in the bar. So then I asked ‘So why are you… Read more »
Steve
Steve

I have met a couple of similar girls. Worked in the bar for a while and then either got sick of the work or started a serious relationship. Every person is different and should be judged on their own merits. Be cautious and make them gain your trust over time.

farfor
farfor

1. my phone no battery
2. i dont put internet
3. my mother is sick
4. i am single

richard jakeway
richard jakeway

i had a thai girlfriend she said she never had a boyfriend when we were in bed 1 morning her phone rang she spoke in English she said it was her ex wanted 2 go 2 here home 2 see her house why would an ex boyfriend want 2 see her home biggest load of bollocks ive ever heard she should be on stage sweeping it

Mike
Mike
a girl I spent a couple weeks with, and who kept subtly trying to get me to buy her jewelry to express my love..lol, finally broke down and showed me all the guys she was playing(getting monthly checks from to stay pure)… she had four different phones… she was rather proud when she showed me, and was in the process of reeling one back in(since I was leaving, and wouldn’t buy her a gold necklace)… it’s the game man. I cannot fault a person that has the limited economic opportunities they do to try such things… all I know is… Read more »
Eve
Eve

Thought all Prostitutes lie. It’s part of their job.

LiveLifeFreely
LiveLifeFreely
I have read a lot of your articles on this site and I really thank you for putting all this information together that is helping so many people like me. I planned a short Thailand trip and am currently in Thailand. Two days here and most of what you have written makes sense to me. The first night, I picked up a super cute thai girl from Tilac bar in Soi Cowboy for “long time”. We had dinner together (of course I paid), then had a wonderful time in the hotel where she really took good care of me. I… Read more »
jim
jim

well written and good understanding but just remember MONEY is not everything if your happy go with it

Scugs
Scugs
Well well well, so good to read all this, because its absolutely true from everyone here especially last guy (Living Life Freely). He I am going to Koh Samui for a holiday for 10x days. I never went there for Sex but once I discoverd Massage Parlours every 500 yards I was hooked !. I banged 3x different girls every day, not bad for someone who is 63 years, (I am in Good shape) but the inevitable happened ???????????? I had hired a motor scooter which gave me complete freedom around the island, but I soon got to know where… Read more »
Sunny
Sunny
Well I am reading red cat about Thai lady lies .i was invited to Thailand after my wedding was canceled in 2010 by my Swiss n American friends n since I go there every year to meet them n enjoy .meeting the girls in bar n playing the game .am Swiss but Indian color .i admit I was easily introduced in bars where my friends got their habits n where the owner knows them . I tried once to go alone in another bargirl.well the girls were not queuing to come to me .ginally in 2014 I met a girl… Read more »
barry
barry

Troy, good comments. Most women are prepared to prostitute themselves for financial gain, often called “security”.
Cheers,
barry

troy tucker
troy tucker
Surely you can’t generalise every single bar girl like this, I do agree somewhat with many of the comments. Remember though that Thais have been brought up to believe that its disrespectful to not take care of your parents, sure they could work at the 7/11 and earn 9000 baht a month (180 pounds!!) for six days a week work with rigorous hours. Or they could shag a few men a week and earn triple. Although it is a choice to turn to prostitution, when considering the other options i’m sure many people would fall for the same trap, its… Read more »
Terryofcrete
Terryofcrete
Good man well said ! Same in Ireland , worse in the US ! Mostly you get value added in Thailand and more than what you paid for , given our relative wealth, and best of all you can avail of it in your later years and be any shape or size. You can have a great time for a small outlay. Try doing that in the “West” , you will be fleeced ! But of course in the west it is Love ! I met a lady cleaning my hotel room in Koh Chang and she moved in !… Read more »
wingman
wingman

Some pearls of wisdom:

You do not pay a whore to fuck you, you pay them to leave!

Eve
Eve

This is Legendary!!!!

tchib
tchib

So stay away…
Why spending time and money with such people?

Henkjan
Henkjan

still you get addicted to these girls ;).

thibault
thibault

heard about baby milk scam in cuba, wonder if its the same.
cuban mother dont open beg for money. she says she dont have enough to buy baby milk. yuma (gringo) buys it for her.she just sell it back to the shop for cold hard cash. shop owners is in the conspiracy, he just buys back the milk at half price, meaning half the money goes into his pocket.

Grumpy Old Man
Grumpy Old Man

Oops. Forgot!!! Its an Asian thing, all the working girls lies, and all business people lie. Just take the baby milk in China. Chineese people go to Hong Kong, to buy baby milk. Take the tuk tuk driver in Cambodia who say that that hotel you want him to bring you, is full. He want you to a place where he get return commission.

By the way, perhap people in our farang countries lie lesser, but, do we always tell the truth? Just take the ads. The sporty guy who smoke cigarettes and is very healthy, etc etc.