Thai Girls Stealing Money

Last updated: December 11th, 2018 | in Thai Girls

Thai Girls Stealing MoneyYou may have heard some of those frightening stories about foreigners’ bad experiences with Thai girls. Most of the time it’s about being cheated on money or valuable belongings.

I have already told you my opinion on feeding Thai girls with money on a regular basis, but in this article I want to show you some of the most common scams foreigners run into when they pick up a Thai girl and think it’s an easy catch.

What is important to point out here is that in almost any case a Thai girl steals money or valuable belongings from a foreigner on the first date it’s girls that don’t have a regular job but are nothing else than nasty hookers, usually freelancers.

If you date an normal Thai girl with an ordinary job or a student that does no sideline chances are actually even lower to get robbed than in most western countries!

Here are some of the most common scenarios on Thai girls stealing money from foreigners:

  • Thai girl steals money while you are in the bathroom. Probably the most common way for foreigners to get ripped off. You go to the bathroom like after you had sex and she knows that you gonna be in there more than ten seconds so she has enough time to grab your wallet and take out a few notes.
    How to avoid this: Leave your bathroom door open, put your key ring on top of your wallet (so it makes noise if she tries to lift it up) or simply take your wallet with you.
  • Thai girl stays with you overnight, the next morning you find her gone as well as your cash and valuables. The alternative to this is that she is still there in the morning but has stolen some of your money and you don’t notice it until she’s gone, telling she has to hurry meeting her friend, going to work or whatever.
    How to avoid this: Don’t let a Thai girl stay at your place during your first date if you haven’t seen her workplace or home. Like this it’s very unlikely that she’s going to steal from you as you know where to find her.
  • Thai girl puts sleeping pills in your drink, another classic method of getting robbed in Thailand. It doesn’t only happen in your or her room but in nightclubs when you have had already a few drinks and don’t watch your glass all the time. Usually within a few minutes you fall asleep and once you woke up you notice that your wallet is gone – as well as the girl.
    How to avoid this: Keep your eye open for this during your first date with a girl. Obviously it’s a lot more difficult when in a nightclub and you can’t watch your glass all the time especially when going to the bathroom.
  • Thai girl steals during massage. More rare than the other scenarios, but it does happen that a Thai girl grabs your wallet while giving you a massage. A more common alternative to this is you meet a girl on the street that offers you a surprisingly cheap massage in “her room” and while she is doing her service there is her friend hiding underneath the bed that quietly comes out, takes your belongings and leaves the room. Shortly after the massage girl excuses herself and disappears with her friend already waiting outside ready to go with the motorcycle.
    How to avoid this: Don’t take an offer for a massage from any Thai girl you meet on the side of the road.

If any of the scenarios happens to you, chances to get back your belongings are near zero. Even if you go to the police station and submit a report it’s not likely that one of the officers will actively go out and investigate. Chances are slightly better if there’s a CCTV camera at the place where it happened (usually at your hotel). The police may then be able to identify her, however the address that’s registered might already be outdated, Thai people especially the young generation are very flexible in moving apartments.

Let me finish this article by emphasizing again that the large majority of Thai girls would never even think about stealing money. The more common method for Thai girls to save a few bath is letting you pay the bills for food, shopping or accommodation.

Do you know of other ways Thai girls steal money? Add it to the list by posting a comment below.

36 Responses

  • Gary says:

    Please dont fall the trick – we only go as a team – they will work out what ways to get your money – ie 1 lady hugs you while the other goes touches you up feeling what they can to take- or both go back to your room( dont take a lady on 1st date to your room – rent a room) then you get then inside the room disagreeing with themselves and if you have paid them( dont pay up front) you dont get any sex as they have arranged to make it an nasty scene so by re arranging a play fight.
    Dont go back to the same location where you saw them -to get back your money they will either not be there or a 3rd lady will say hey join me with the good lady from the 1st failed session and we will give you a discount – yes sure – watch out for the lady who says then she must check her period while you have fun with the 2nd lady – they will be searching for anything mainly money or valuables
    Dont let any lady or lady boy come at you and give you any attention such as a strong hug – they will also take what they can
    If you dont get ladies ID then look out as well even if they are from a gogo club or bar
    Dont carry more than a few thousand baht dont take a smart phone or credit card out at night and make sure you use your hotel safe and never use it in presence of anyone
    I have too many stories and I have been to Thailand many times – and I dont get drunk – the ladies keep thinking of better ways to take our money – at least I have not been held at knife or gun point as some of my friends

  • Anthony Finch says:

    I met a Thai woman through friends here in the UK. She is a teacher in Sisaket. She wanted to come to the UK for a holiday but didn’t have sufficient funds in her account to be considered for a visitor visa. I offered to lend her £2000 on the understanding that it would be repaid on her entry to the UK. Her visa was refused and she won’t give me my money back. She has apparently spent most and given the rest to her family members. I’m not able to contact her as she has blocked me completely. My friends have asked her to give it back but she just keeps saying its gone and she can’t do anything. Do I have any recourse?

    • Redcat says:

      Where did you meet that girl if she hadn’t had a visa yet? Online? Then why did you lend her 2k without having met her in person? Doesn’t make sense to me.

    • Spencer says:

      No u have no recourse. You don’t give a girl that much money. And of course if she spent it how on earth would someone from a developing country hope to pay that back? It’s like a year of wages.

  • ben says:

    it’s not just a thai girl thing to scam a man out of his money. all women are like that. it’s in their nature to go after men’s resources. the more you do for them the less they will respect you. they instinctively look for the alpha male. a alpha doesn’t care about her feelings. he just reproduces and dominates. the western men have been told that if you behave friendly to a women she will reward you. nope! men have a dominance instinct for a reason. nice guys finish last and badboys get laid. loyalty is not in a woman’s nature. you can treat a women like a queen and yet she will replace you if she thinks she can do better. a woman is biologically programmed to collect as much resources as possible. the only thing that can keep a woman in check is male dominance or group pressure. if this is not present she will have no morality at all. alpha fxxxs beta bucks. thai women, western women, russian women. it makes no difference. their experience is totally different from men’s. women do not love men.

    • Linda Lowther says:

      You say that its in a womans nature to go after a man’s resources. You also say its in her nature to go after the alpha who doesnt give a shit about her. That does not make sense. If it was her nature to want resources, she would be going after a beta who would be more willing to give them to her.

      Women would have no morality at all, eh? I wonder which gender is more unfiathful in a marriage, which gender commits more violent and sexual crime, etc….

      You must be a sad case with a very unfortunate background in regards to the women you have met.

  • Derek says:

    O dear, what very sad tales. First thing to do is understand the culture.
    When you understand, then you can make choices.

    Please dont treat Thailand as a backward peoples nation. We have many problems in Europe and the USA which are far more inflicting on political and social impact.

    Keep the faith my friends, in whatever your background.


  • Chris says:

    My Thai gf came to the UK 3 times at my cost. I paid her bills back home. Clothes and everything. We had a row one day and when I was at work she stole my camera and money and fly back to Thailand the same day. 4 years we were together and she still asks me for money. No chance love.

  • Saahil says:

    i took two girls to my room and was have 1400 usd in my wallet i want them to stay with me full day but one of them was too rude so i ask them to go while the work was not complete but i paid them there money while second one told me she will come back after leaving first one so i said ok once they go out i checked my wallet and saw there was only 400 usd i was thinking that where i spent 1000 usd but in five minutes they came back and said they want to stay with me and behaviour of first one was also good now and they started doing fun with me and i forgot about 1000.. after that we had fun and go to washroom.. then they again said they are leaving i was confused that they go before then come back to stay with me now going again… they again demanded for money but i rejected and told them that i already paid them enough before…then they left and i call from security about wallet check and i saw that now theres only 200$.. i asked security to get them back.. once they back me and security guy checked them they have nothing… just money i paid them.. then security called the police and ladies police check them again stil didnt got anything from them just an extra 100$.. then police wanted me to write complain but hotel secuirty told me that nothing will happen if i complain… so like this i lost 1200$

  • I heard there is put sleeping paste on her nipple scam.

  • scott neil says:

    Yes. I have lived in Thailand for years now. I came here with nothing but love and compassion and respect for the Thais, especially the “poor” girls. Now I have little but contempt, suspicion and almost hatred. I have dated 70-80 ladies here. All but two ripped me off or lied to me or cheated on me. The mindset here is to scam. It is morally acceptable because to offset it all they need do under Buddhism is to feed a hungry dog or two, or spend time raking leaves in a monastery. That, they believe, makes everything ok (called “making merit”). I came here as a widower, thinking I would find a nice woman to marry and give her a great life. After all these years I have ZERO prospects for a decent woman and I am alone. I am considered decent looking, young, and well off financially. Trust me; these girls, given the choice, will turn down a lifetime of love and affluence, in favor of the 2000 baht in your wallet now. Surrounding countries in SE Asia can have a tiny bit more moral fiber, but not much. If you are stolen from in Thailand by 999 out of 1000, then maybe in Cambodia or the Phil you will only be stolen from by 994 out of 1000. If finding a decent woman is your motive for coming here, put it straight out of your head. Or your can be like me and think all the nay-sayers are stupid, don’t know how to treat a lady, cheap, assholes. Many are. But in my experience it absolutely does not matter how well you treat them. You are an ATM machine on legs and your are absolutely nothing more than that. You are an object to be fleeced. I speak enough Thai to hear and understand the girls discussing their plans and plots. This is evil on a scale and of a depth you never dreamed possible. In fact, about three times a month, when I am POSITIVE I’ve seen the bottom of the barrel, I am shocked and stunned yet again at the staggering depth of their dishonesty. It is far beyond anything I can describe, and I am a well paid magazine writer with a fair vocabulary. No one can describe this to you. You must experience it to understand. But leave your wallet at home. Voice of experience. You will occasionally hear of a happy farang/thai couple. But trust me — they are in some stage of impending disaster. They just don’t know it yet..

    • Steve says:

      I think most relationships and marriages in most countries are in some stage of impending disaster. Rarely does a relationship remain happy “till death do us part” unless one of the partners dies prematurely.

    • Paul says:

      Hi Scott. I am dreadfully impressed by your comments, because I supposed the opposite was true…Can you please elaborate more on this same subject (all thai girls are scammers)? Do you have your own blog in which you share your experience in mode depth? Did you only meet bar girls or did you also try to approach apparently honest-looking girls on a shopping mall or a temple or a church? Or even through a seemingly more reliable dating site? Thank you. Paul

    • Linda Lowther says:

      You might want to try India. Other than a prostitute, women there generally are never with more than 1 man in their lifetimes. If you marry an Indian woman, there is little chance she will ever leave or steal if you treat her well. I have never heard of such a case over there. Also interesting, is the fact that the dowry is the other way around there, where the woman’s parents pays the man to marry the daughter; the man does not pay the woman’s parents. Furthermore, it is the sons who are expected to care for the elderly parents…not the daughter and certainly not the daughter’s husband! (unless he wants to).

    • lou walker says:

      These people live in the real world, no one has given them anything without a string attached, they cannot afford to risk their future on a pipe dream that prince charming actually exists. All they see is those millions of male tourists with apparently unlimited funds,who are only interested in what they can get. They are only aware of the broken hearts and abandoned babies there is NO welfare in these countries, everyone in their family, who are their responsibility, need assistance so there is help from family, you will NEVER be able to understand just what that means. It is them against the foreigners. My Thai wife has explained to me.


    • Jonas says:

      I have had 5 relationships with Thai girls and I dated far more than that and I never got ripped of or even asked for money. I even experienced Thai girls paying for me all the time since I was still studying. I’m an average looking German guy in his mid-twenties who lived in Thailand for three years and speak and write Thai fluently. With all due respect I think you dated the wrong girls and I guess you’re either stupid, very naive or outstanding lonely. Don’t be a fool and date girls by throwing cash at them.
      I would never date a hooker or a girl without own income. My past girlfriends either studied or had a well paid job (dentist, banker,…) which I knew from work of from other friends. I knew their parents and they knew me. By now I’m married with a Thai girl who earns more money than I do and my dowry was an “I love you”.
      Many western men have lost everything down here thinking they were rich. I cannot do much but laugh about these stories, laugh about ignorance and stun about men living here over 5 years and are still unable to communicate in Thai.

  • prinz94 says:

    Do you know of other ways Thai girls steal money?

    – most girls do not steal money.

    When u stay long time with a girl, u will learn, they get it. A house, a car , a motobike, a new Smartphone, a present for mama .

    You can find a lot of man on the beach of Jomtien, They live there, after having lost all to the girls … Others jump from the balkony … the money went in the direction of the girl.

    This is Thailand, everybody knows it. End of every story, the money is in the hand of the girl.

    They not need to steal it … but they get it.

  • Utku k says:

    Do not pay thai girl ! Escort don’t bring to hotel !!! They toke my wallet £2000 pound and wallet and cards gone! Made me take tablet sleeping pill x2 and next day she’s gone ! Always keep in safe no matter what everything keep inside never trust them no matter how beautiful they are all scammers ! Very very bad never trust ! No matter how luxury hotel they steal from you. They bad !!

  • jagy says:

    Yeah connecting the story once i was in pattaya coming out of famous fish bowl “RASPUTIN’ one beautiful young girl approached me on a bike and stopped beside me and asked would like to come to my room for sex. Luckily i had just had good session in RASPUTIN and said sorry to her politely and she left soon. May be this is a fucking scam and the girl probably this girl wanted to rob me after reaching her room.

    beware guys.

  • TC says:

    You can’t bring Thai whores to a hotel and fuck?
    The cops show up?

    Was that poster being serious?

    What can travelers do then when they want to fuck a hot Thai whore?

    • Dee says:

      Don’t think dude was serious, just came from Thailand and you can bring all the girls you want back to hotel. They may have to sign in though and show I.D.

  • Steve says:

    After 5 years in Thailand I have never had anything stolen EVER. Not saying this doesn’t happen but I think it’s often a reflection of your own mind-set. Sure girls will to get you to pay for EVERYTHING but that’s normal haha and not stealing. TREAT them decent like normal human beings not potential criminals, buy them food if you get the chance (thai girls are ALWAYS hungry no matter what they tell you haha) and you will find they will respond in KIND. They will still lie tho haha!

  • warren says:

    what do foreigners do for work in thailand

  • junatt says:

    Are Thai hotels safe for bringing girls?

  • thaiexpat says:

    The problem with thai girls you can know some for a long time and they will still steal from you. Just recently a girl who i know well thought i know was down on her luck and had no place to stay. so i allowed to stay at my condo for a few days. So she leaves i go to collect my laundry and find i’m 6,000 Baht missing. This is after i feed her everyday and give her sofa bed to sleep on.

    It’s not the theft that annoys me it’s the principle after all i’ve done for her, well never again.

    • John McDonagh says:

      i have recently parted from my Thai girlfriend after over 6 yrs her scam was to get as much money expensive phones computer etc out of me this was 2 months ago i have only just found out that in those 6 years she lied cheated and stole from me. She stayed with me in a 4 bed/4 bath plus swimming pool luxury bungalow near Jomtien and she wanted for nothing, one morning she informed me she was going to live with her mother in Burriram as her father had passed away a few weeks before. She took the car she has now informed me that the car has now been sold? Never trust a thai girl even when you think you are very happy with them they lead you into a false sense of security

      • TC says:

        Thank you so much for your comment.
        Now I know to never trust a Thai girl.
        Seems like no matter how well you treat a Thai girl she’ll rip you off.

        Lots of American girls are the same way.
        They cheat like no tomorrow even when married!
        Sadly when I was in my 20’s I hooked up with many hot girls only to later find out they were married, had a boyfriend, etc.

        My own friend’s wives would jump on me trying to suck my dick and fuck me when my friend would go out and run an errand.

        I think most people females and males are cheating pieces of shit.

        Hopefully I’m wrong :(

        What is an honest guy to do?

        I’m hoping to meet and maybe one day marry a hot Russian girl.

      • Walter says:

        “Never trust a thai girl even when you think you are very happy with them they lead you into a false sense of security”………….Just take(Thai )out of that sentence and you’ve got it right

  • Peter says:

    Every hotel I stayed required the girl to show ID and the hotel kept and/or wrote down her information.

    • Steve says:

      Also as she is leaving and before getting her ID card back, good hotels will ring you to make sure you are OK. If you are unconscious and don’t answer the phone they will investigate while holding the girl.