Are All Thai Girls Bad And Only Want Your Money?

Last updated: January 9th, 2018 | in Thai Girls

I meet so many guys that have been living in Thailand for several years and tell me: “The girls are all the same, they only want your money!” What I then usually figure out is that just by looking at their girlfriend (or wife) I know she has been working in a bar or was just another sort of hooker.

You can meet two different types of girls in Thailand: Those that don’t have a job (hookers included of course) and those that do have a job. Student girls are not included as they are still figuring out what type of girl they wanna be once they’re finished with their thesis.

If you are going for a hooker, sure why not, but then of course she has a bad character and even if you can bang her for free she will try to get some money another way. Like ask you out for shopping or tell you about her family’s (or buffalo’s) problems and expect you to give her something to take care her. If you are only out for some fun and don’t want to meet her again after the first night, no problem she will find someone else or even has several other sponsors already.

But then if you are really out for some serious relationship of course you are better off looking for a girl that has a regular job. I have been working for two different Thai companies in Bangkok and met so many beautiful girls that can take care for themselves. They like foreigners because they think they are white, handsome and want this adventure with someone that has a completely different culture and background. Of course still a lot of them are looking for a Farang with money to have even more financial security. But then, isn’t it the same with a lot of girls in our home country?

Do Thai Girls Only Want MoneySo many guys think it’s just so more convenient to get some bar girl than just walking around public places like the mall and smiling at a girl they like as she often looks at you like an alien. If you do smile however chances are that she will smile back.

It’s really a phenomenon, often Thais looking at you dead serious and if you give them a smile they change completely and smile back immediately. Go meet a “normal” girl with an ordinary job (i.e. by using Thai Friendly, the most popular dating site among expats in Thailand) and you will make a whole different experience than with a bitch that is good enough to bang a few times but then would only start sucking your money.

The truth is there are lots foreigners that have a happy relationship with a Thai woman and the only reason why a lot of people don’t know about it is because they are hanging out in the bars all the time and get to hear the sad stories that have started and ended in the red light district (often if a Thai hooker breaks up or divorces with her guy she goes back to beach road even though she has enough money just because it’s so much easier than looking for a real job).

I know of so many people that had better experiences with their relationships, like once I had a business meeting with a rich English restaurant owner that speaks Thai and has been married to a Thai woman that is member of the royal family, for more than 30 years already. Or my ex-coworker that is married to a Norwegian guy, she has a pretty good job and income and now decided to quit and follow her husband to Norway to take care of his sick mum.

And I have student girlfriends who never ask for money but clean my room and do my laundry every Sunday. Which kind of hooker would do that for you? None, with no exceptions. Believe me I tried. Why would they they are not used to work anyway. Just stay away from the bars for a month and you will meet those foreigners telling you different stories.

One of the easiest methods to figure out if you’re talking to a hooker or not and you speak to her in Thai is by listening if she uses the polite particle “ka”. Normal Thai girls are polite when you first talk to them and use “ka” in every other sentence. Hooker’s don’t! One of the advantages of being able to speak Thai.

The truth is that the general saying of guys that had bad experiences with Thai girls, been cheated, squeezed for money and ending up with a broken heart have made this experience with hookers most of the time. Of course there are also “bad” girls with a normal job that are out for money but once again that kind of girl you have in every country in the world and if you get divorced with a woman in Germany, Australia or the United States it will normally be a lot more expensive then it is with a Thai girl (unless you made a stupid mistake like having given her a 51% ownership of your Thai Limited Company or bought property under her name).

If you stay in Thailand for longer you can also observe and experience how Thai guys are dating the girls. And they often don’t have much money at all but date several girls at a time end even let them pay the bills! Why? Because they know how to date a Thai girl without spending much money (or just pick up karaoke girls after they finished working, not just motorbike drivers like to do that).

You can say a lot about Thai girls, that they have some really weird habits and stuff but it’s definitely not right generalizing and saying that all Thai girls are bad and only want your money. You can make a Thai girl fall in love with you and money has never bought any girl’s heart.

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noel
noel
good people . the point here is to get your Thai women to come stay in your own country. what i do is get 2 girls ( not bar girls) to come live with me half the year and other half in thailand .when they on your turf you have the advantage. and of course they want money to take back home.if you can’t afford a thai women or women’s . stay in boring Europe and get a boring white women … all women I’ve problems but 2 thai women in my bed is worth it 100%
Mark
Mark

At the end of the day, they want a foreigner for money, simple, does not matter if she is a bar girl, accountant, nurse, etc, all the same

Kin
Kin
I’ma Thai women, I like white guys cuz he think they are attractive. Anyway thai women are not all the same, it depends on theirs background. I came from an upper class family who runing a business in Thailand. I graduated from a private university and now working on my master degree in San Francisco. Most of my surrounding friends are educated and have a decent job thay are capable of taking care of themselves, and not hungry for money. You guys would have completely different experience when you choose to date with educated thai women not bar girls. I’m… Read more »
Kevin Steele
Kevin Steele

Kin….where are the best places to meet nice, personable, well-educated girls. I will be in Bangkok JUNE, and do some people watching at Soi Cowboy, etc…..but I would really like to meet someone relationship-worthy (I will be relocating)

Jim
Jim
I have no idea what real men see in Thai women, unless they have a unhealthy fixation with child porn! They really aren’t that attractive, and you will never know one deep down! I put it to you this way, i have friend that works and lives in Thailand for the last 10 years In that time, there is NOT ONE Thai national he would call a friend, not one! He has a house there, its more like a small resort, of course he has his Thai women to facilitate this house purchase. But he honestly could not say he… Read more »
LILITH
LILITH
Even though it may sound a bit irritating and shaken in the sense of Thai women like me. But I can not deny that you are right. It is fair to Westerners to look at Thai women in disdain. But to talk about the charm and interest of the individual. I must admit that the likes and dislikes of each person is not the same. You may not like us Thai, but for some people, we may be attractive for foreigners at least some more or less. So I feel bad when you talk about Thai women That ” They… Read more »
Ige
Ige

it’s ok Lilith, not everyone view thai girls as such… bad…

kevin
kevin
after reading most of these comments and myself 1 year into a relationship with a thai lady i see arguments both for and against. i think us westerners or “ferrangs” forget to notice that when dating or in fact marrying a girl from our own countires, towns, cities we pay far more for them than we realise in the long run. your girlfriend/wife,.. want the fancy motor the designer shoes, handbags, dresses. she wants the hair doos the nails the holidays and the keep up with the joneses bollocks. ok granted your native lady wont outright ask for money (… Read more »
Mink
Mink

Not all of thai girl want money . It just only girls in bar . Everybody different please don’t decited like that. you just only know about bar but really it has something bigger than it.
Every country have got bitch or bad girl not only in thailand .
Eeverybody maybe bad and good it the same not only in thailand want money .
#iam a student.

jerkalot
jerkalot
My experiences with BAR-girls, if you can’t see them right in front of you, don’t trust what they are saying or messaging you. You hear a lot of western media say, “oh the men go there and prey on the poor women”, I feel that like 80 % of the women in the bar-business prey on the sometimes lonely and naive men coming there, a LOT of lies there to get you to pay this and that. Ordinary Thai girls is another subject that you can read about elsewhere on this great forum’s sites. Go for happy times and don’t… Read more »
Chris
Chris

Do not go for a thai women nothing but headaches. U be working for nothining supporting her hole family send money back home and a lot off lies. They are just good for fun that’s it,

Sober Man
Sober Man

Chris you are so right. For the fools that believe their wife’s or girlfriends loves them please read the book named “wondering into the Thai culture” when you wake up.

LILITH
LILITH
Sadly you have the opportunity in your whole life just to visit in such a low place. And I pray that you have enough merit to visit with the people of my beautiful and serious culture in Thailand. I used to have an American bf and my family was still poor. But I never asked him to send money to help my family, even a single US. But we have to break up because of the distance , my ex couldn’t waiting to see me again because he was so horny lol and that maybe you’ll be on his side… Read more »
P
P
Thailand… hmm… I went to Thailand to work. From living in Sweden raising 2 children till their age around 20s years. Come to Thailand cause of a friend of me started a company and wanted my help with good photos. I meet a woman who work in the same company, she make a decent amount per month regarding earnings in this company. Everything seemed to be wonderful, she wrote me love letters every morning we were together, telling me how much she love me… this lasted for about 1 month(I mean the love letters), suddenly one evening when she be… Read more »
Chuck
Chuck

I think Thai women are beautiful but Their reality is different than ours. We expect them to see the world the way we see it and vice versa. I have been to thailand 4 times and still haven’t met any sincere women yet maybe because I keep going to pattaya LOL!!!!! I had a thai young girl it didn’t work because her older sisters were lying on me and she believed them. So now I just want to enjoy Thailand not looking for A GF just a good time.

Sasa
Sasa
Foreign men who come to Thailand for have sex. They is no different from a dirty asshole. They can have sex all over the world. But they come to Thailand because They just look for cheap dirty. and then foreigner women, she not choose them. Many foreign man wants to have a Thai wife but never interest in Thai culture before. They just want the sweet, good service and everything is good from Thai women, The most of these foreign man is so lazy man and love comfort. They just want the Thai women have free service for them until… Read more »
Professor
Professor

And how do you know this? You seem like an expert on foreign men. I guess you can say then that the Thai women who go for these lazy men only care about money? So? You get what you deserve.

Kouhei
Kouhei

I agree. Mostly, wealthy pensioner however the quality of his life is empty, looking for the chance about one night love making.

Certainly these types of men rush into Thailand. Very non sence. I can’t imagine the life for just having sex and wast our life just only for it.

As far as we exist mankind, sexual instinction is our inevitable inherence
but we should learn how to make our
life more productive.

John
John
I remember about three years ago, at Bilabong bar in Pattaya, a very ugly old foreign man who had obviously never been to Thailand before and had just arrived was sitting with about six bar girls who were being friendly, having conversation with a smile and generally being nice to him. He could not help himself, he was crying with joy. I could imagine he only got ignored or had girls look at him bad all his life. I remember it used to be much more common that bar girls in Thailand liked a man because he was a nice… Read more »
CB
CB

It does not matter what the men want. The Thai women do not have to accept them but…..they do, so whose fault is that???

LILITH
LILITH
Maybe my fault?‍♀️ because I came to reading the comments and actually I should laying down and watching cartoons but most of the comments here are really insulting it just because you can’t get what you expect but I didn’t see any comments from those Hookers to talking bad and insulting about foreigners. Or maybe they have but I didn’t see. Guys here they acted like they hate to eat the peanut butter but they can’t stop eat it because they are so hungry, and yeah it’s my fault to born in Thailand and see the disdain from human from… Read more »
Shaun
Shaun
I think a lot of this article and the comments are rubbish. Full of stereotypes. Western men who live in or often visit Pattaya all “bald fat and disgusting” old men. Well, a lot of young handsome men from the West and also Asia live in Pattaya or regularly visit. This stuff about all Thai women being money-hungry sluts is also unfair. Obviously all are not.. And if some men who have been married before and now divorced or who have had long term GF’s in the past just want to have fun with bar girls in Pattaya that is… Read more »
Sunio
Sunio

I’m Thai girl and I don’t want money from guys.
I think they are SOMEONE not all Thai girl

Jazz
Jazz

People have different thoughts. I like Thai girls for their beauty not for any benefit .

PP
PP

I am a Thai girl! A lot of Farang man just like to go Bar, a night club, just want to have SEXXXXXXXXX. For sure!! You must meet some girl who want your money and sex from you. But you would like a love from her. And u decide all Thai girl being like that!!
Many website said a bad thing about Thai girl. But u should know not all Thai girl bad. ok?
Many of Farang man do the bad thing to Thai girl……………………

Professor
Professor

That’s true. But how many Thai women try to learn about the culture of their foreign boyfriends? And how many Thai women want foreign boyfriends to learn Thai culture? It seems to me many Thai women who date foreign men – even the ‘good’ girls – only want their boyfriends to know the ‘important’ things about Thai culture. Like Sin Sod. Or respecting her parents and family. Much else most foreigners in Thailand learn about Thai culture by themselves.

daren shaw
daren shaw

well said speak up for yourself girl.

PHILLIP PASSEY
PHILLIP PASSEY
Hi, My first reason for me to reply to these comments was because my Initials are P.P. But secondly and more important I feel that the comments made are stereotyping Foreigners? In every Country in the world there are both good, bad, evil and indifferent people. Both sexes and all sexual stereo types. I have always treated “working Girls”, the same as I would treat anyone else. With respect, understanding, compassion and try to understand traits and cultures of many Nationalities.Yes the first time I went to Thailand was in 1985 and to be truthful it was for a sexual… Read more »
Zac
Zac
Nice article redcat . Been going to Thailand for years . Do Thai girls have real love for us ? Doubt it ! It’s not the other hidden farang who sent the girls additional money , we should think about … Yes of course it worries us , when we do eventually find out, BUT , it’s the the secret Thai boyfriend somewhere in the background. Happened to me 2 times , and to my farang friends also . Ages ago , I asked my Thai girl , who was petite and very fragile , what she wanted for her… Read more »
Humdinga
Humdinga

I met my girlfriend in a bar, first time I went to Thailand January 2015 and she cooks for me and does my washing and cleans the hotel room and makes the bed.

Been to meet her family twice and they have been very accommodating to me, lovely lovely people they don’t have much but they’re happy.

Never had any mention of needing money because the family buffalo has died haha.

I didn’t go Thailand looking for a girlfriend just a holiday with friends but you can’t help who you fall in love with!

Richard Barker
Richard Barker

amen to that humdinga

Mike
Mike

She is not your girlfriend, she is your maid

Jim
Jim

Exactly!

Richard
Richard
I should add that I did a fair bit of research on the bar girl stuff after my first visit that’s why I think she different didn’t meet the stereotype criteria apart from working the bar stuff. I think my post is looking for comments whether I been done over by an absolute pro young at that but when I first met her she had only been in the game 3 months she was a novice at the sex stuff after being with a real pro couple of nights before. Don’t want comments that degenerate or reflect on her ethics… Read more »
Richard Barker
Richard Barker
geez people I am just trying to get over being dumped by bar girl went to Thailand July 15 at invitation of my niece who does business in Bangkok and chills out in Pattaya for a few days. Yep I’m an oldie and not much with the ladies for many years due to my personal situation My niece said she wouldn’t leave without getting me laid etc she has a sense of humour ?. Met a really pretty chick on one bar and spent night all ok haven’t seen since not look for her met another young bar girl in… Read more »
Robert Turner
Robert Turner

Never send them cash they just want your bart .No bart no sex if you want an empty wallet see a thai girl.

Willy
Willy
First of all, there are more types of girls in Thailand: Those who are married with a Thai, Second group: those who learned and earned a degree and have a good job (This group is hard to access for foreigners as you need a lot of time to find them and the most don’t want a 50 or 70 year old man but normal age level, no father or mother in this groups family will accept an old guy. The next group: girls with children looking for sponsor, sure she will love anyone, up to the money support she will… Read more »
Roland
Roland

Of course I will not have a whore.

Roland
Roland

Everything you wrote I agree. I just say some girls are not super bad. I would never send money imagine she love me or stop work. Not that it matter if she stop. Just knowing she probably fucked 3000 man is to much to know. The only thing girls do when guys sending money they don’t have to fuck old men anymore but younger and for free. I have seen it all,

Alan Malone
Alan Malone

Good read. Just been for 1st time in years but this time 1 them bar girls caught my eye. The most attractive woman I ever shagged ( so say). And was close to going off sick so could go back and see her. Your article as well as others have made me realise I could lose so much for sloppy seconds on a stunner.

Roland Holm
Roland Holm
My Thai go go hooker seems to be completely honest. She is 27 and worked for 4-5 years. She loves sex. She go for free if young and handsome. 20% of customers she have orgasm. I believe her, she come easy. She say she can come if she wants. She looks very good and we have good sex and company. I´m 50+ but good body and young attitude. Still I feel jealous when she tells me she have sex for free sometimes..can´t help it or accept it but don´t ask to much about it. She claimed that many go go… Read more »
mar
mar

Ronald, do you believe what a hooker tells you? Really? You are the lucky one of only 20% whom she has orgazm with, I bet she tells it to each and every customer she has being with hahahaha. Orgazm is easy to fake fools.

Roland
Roland
Yes i belived her. Not even 5% of any girls have orgasm with me i beleive. If her intention was to make me jealouse I could understand her lying. She come very easy. I agree it’s difficult to tell. I had sex with maybe 800 women but still can’t tell sure. Why she need to tell she have orgasm with others? She don’t claim to have with me everytime. And why she say she fuck for free if young handsome? Come more easy if big cock. Completely honest. I’m normal in everyday. She one of those loving her work and… Read more »
sanjay
sanjay

l’m a black man are thai woman into black guys?

Shaliza Abdul Samat
Shaliza Abdul Samat

Yes , if u got a lot of money !! :)))

John
John

No

Sunio
Sunio

I’m sorry that most of Thai girls are not really into black guys, but I guess gen Y Thai girls like me would?? maybe??
So, it is like a rumor at the very ancient time about lighter skin Thai people and darker skin Thai people. Lighter will always be in their house or work in somewhere that would get the less sun ray, for darker will be in the fields to work, then…. But I believe that nowadays this will be away from Thailand right soon.

Andre
Andre

Baloney ! I dated a Thai lawyer, and after a year of chatting and 6 weeks of happily living together, she started harassing me for money. Big times ! After I politely refused to succomb to her demands, she packed up her belongings and split.
This is Thailand. Beware !

Edgar Atiles
Edgar Atiles
Guys we have to stop stereotyping,yes it exists but it clouds our reasoning. Women r women everywhere,they’ve confused n manipulated men for millennia,they’ve brought down n destroyed kings n empires,yet we still can’t resist they’re deadly nectar. Whether lawyer or a soi 6 whore their natural imperative is to sniff out the weak n use them for whatever purpose suits them at the present time. You cannot be utilized if your a man of strength n character n hold your ground n principles. But if you fish in muddied waters be realistic about what can possibly be hooked on your… Read more »
CB
CB

You say lawyer like that means something over there lol. She was not making jack shit compared to some western lawyers so OF COURSE she wants your money lol. Be glad she left.

LILITH
LILITH

What do you do with her? Why do not you tell all the details? Or maybe you’re too good to be impressed lol . But it is so surprising that only a few people can compare to the whole country. I am amazed by your vision.

americanteacherinthailand
americanteacherinthailand
Hmmm, thus why I’m writing my book about being a “black” man in this country. Everyone conveniently chose to ignore the fact that Thailand is one of the most openly racist countries (China and a few european countries in front of them) in the world towards Africans, African Americans, and Indians. The amount of hate I received as a dark skin guy from Thai women is some of the ugliest I’ve received in any country – period. For a white man, this place is absolute paradise beyond belief. It’s easy. Yes, if you go into touristy areas, you will be… Read more »
mar
mar
Americanteacherinthailand, I was in Thailand in the 80′ and I was shocked to see how raceist Thai people are. I am a white woman and I had African hair style for couple days, I could not get any restaurant to serve me food, I was ignored completely even when I try to get the waitress attention, on another occasion I saw a couple, white girl with African guy in a restaurant I was dining and they could not get any food, they were ignored completely. I kept my African hair style for couple days only because I realized I will… Read more »
Mr. Jeff
Mr. Jeff

While the generalities are just that…generalities…the advice given is quite good. Take it and spare yourself a lot of grief…

JG
JG
My friends experience is different and I would love to get your views. 6months ago he met a Thai Hooker working in the U.K. She had been sucked into the system and was being controlled. They started seeing each other, they fucked all the time and no money was ever exchanged. After three months her boss was arreseted and she stopped working. From there on in He took care of her, paid for her to stay somewhere and gave her some cash for food. He’s fallen in love and she says she has too. The feelings between them are amazing… Read more »
CB
CB

Your friend is a complete idiot to fall for pussy thrown at him by a professional pussy thrower that sized him up as a meal ticket from day one. Oldest trick in the book to start off with “free” pussy then charge his dumb ass later. Bet you anything, no one else has spent the total amount of money that your dumb ass friend has. If you’re a TRUE friend, you will convince him to cut his losses and dump her whoring ass!

lung
lung

Any smart Thai and farang man dates a girl from Laos or Burma 555. Thai women are spoiled or dumb or obsessed with money or frigid… Their education even Uni is sub-zero. Farm girls are even worse and mostly hookers anyway. If y don’t like Lao or Myanmarese stick to eskimos or aboriginals… ?

mar
mar

Lung, what about dating your own?

Dr. Mark
Dr. Mark
Well guys – having been through the wringer from high to low I must say that in one way or another women everywhere are about money one way or another. I have been around Thailand since 1966 Army days and now have a retirement visa. I married a “hi-so” Thai who looks down on any sort of poo-Ying BA-Rene-garn but is lousy at sex although beautiful. A good day is 12 hops between the Gucci shop and Louis Vutton. No bar girl on earth could spend like this woman. After many years in Bangkok I made the semi- mistake of… Read more »
Dr. Mark
Dr. Mark
To update my story I finally divorced the “hi-so” Thai after 7 years of marriage (including the ladt 3 years of no or bad sex from her). But sex wasnt the worst of it – it was the unbridled spending and expectations. I strongly recommend steering clear of Thai “hi-so’s”. Now I have moved to Pak Chong to live with an old girlfriend – self-sufficient and a great gal. Common sense woukd say “be happy and grateful” for having a good woman to love you. BUT I cannot clear my mind of the damned engineer-parttime hooker. I know her, her… Read more »
Edgar Atiles
Edgar Atiles
Wow dude such honest emotion and raw truth,I feel for you brother.i know you wrote those words over a year ago but I sincerely hope you’ve overcome your struggle. The engineer whore was your outlet n escape from that hi so dragon lady you married n u got stuck on her emotionally. I had a similar situation in the Philippines when I left my wife in New York for a 21 year old philipina stunner that psychologically and emotionally tore me to shreds for years ,I’m still not 100% over her ! I recently saw her after a few years… Read more »
H
H
I go to Thailand frequently and I see increasing numbers of women hooking up with bar girls. I also see lesbian couples paying bar girls to sleep with them and this is commonly seen. There is also a growing number of western women and rich Japanese, Chinese and Australian women who fly in to buy young handsome Thai men for sex. It makes me smile when western women criticize men for this behaviour but the truth is that western women are no different. Most if not all women would fuck a guy 20 years younger if they got the chance… Read more »
mari
mari

Let’s change your bad think about Thai girls . Thai women not bad all because have good and not good person same like western man also

mari
mari

It’s me again , I am Thai women and have befriend from western but I never ask money ,I have work and find money by myself :)

suat
suat

I’m agree with Mari. Many foreigner are talking about exceptional behavoir of the Thai people. If the women or man have a job never ask money to others.

Edgar Atiles
Edgar Atiles

Not true, many women with lots of money do exactly this – its about power n dominance for many ,the money is just the vehicle to subjugate men .

Harry
Harry
you really need to have good looks if you want a Thai girl. Even the sexy pretty bargirls only go with handsome farang guys, let alone the good girls, they will exclusively only be interested in handsome farang guys. What’s handsome though for a thai girl might not necessarily be handsome for western people. Many Thai girls are interested in fat older guys because they find those guys sexy, it’s weird but true. I am 40 and never have been able to pull any thai girl. The only girls interested in me have only been old fat ugly thai women… Read more »
Miami007
Miami007

Sorry to hear that you are striking out with Thai girls
Can’t really agree with your comment that Thai girls find old and fat westerners sexy.. my Thai friend told me once that “you guys like slender girls. We girls like slender physique too”

If a good looking girl is putting up with an old and fat guy, there mostly is money involved.

Mark
Mark
I am 54 years old now, divorced for a long time, in the eyes of a young Thai woman I suspect that I may be the “Fat unkept Falang”. I am in Pattaya at this time, my two week holiday soon coming to a end. This is my first time in Asia and it’s been quite an eye opener for me. It’s easy to see how this subject becomes so enraged or confused. I may be 54 years now, not so good looking as I was, I carry more weight than I used to but when I go out for… Read more »
Simon
Simon
I’m pretty sure u can find a non working woman, given that age difference is not to large. Many older guys fancy young girls for sex, but it would not make a happy relationship. Do not worry that the girl want to know your work and income, it does not mean she is not intersted in you, it only means that she is checking that premises for further relationbuilding is present. Read the book ‘How to meet a good thai lady’ and I think a lot of questions u have will be answered. U can get kindle version from amazon… Read more »
ps
ps
Im asian man from malaysia. I haved isaan gf for about 4 years (on and off relationship ). So i know many isaan girls due to my relationship. I frequently go to Thailand mostly phuket. Yes most of them is money grabber (if not all but most of them) and sadly including my girlfriend too. Luckily she not doing anything to me. But secretly have many farang bf for monetary purpose only (the reasons i left her after i found out). Some of the farang bf even give her monthly allowance. Some of them give enough money to buy a… Read more »
Edgar Atiles
Edgar Atiles

Agree never ever send money ,also once you leave cut off all contact ,hard to do but you will save your self much misery . When you resume get your glove n bat and get back anxiously in the game again. Guys learn from the vets , almost all these 3rd grade whores have forked tongues whose only purpose is to part you from your money! Are there exceptions? Of course,but do you really want to rely on those odds ? Good luck at the slots (555)

Pat
Pat
I find many of the comments here very offensive to Thailand. I have been happily married to a Thai lady from issan for 6 years. We did not meet in a bar and she was working I her own business when I met her. She gave up her entire life in Thailand and moved away from her family and the Thai way of life to be with me in Australia. She currently earns more money than me and supports her entire family and me in Australia.Not all Thai girls want your money! They just want a happy life with a… Read more »
Brendan
Brendan

Well said Pat.
Yours is the best comment I’ve seen here.

Soren
Soren
I totally agree with you Pat. I’m also happy married to a Thai lady, and never had any problem about money, Indeed my wife doesn’t want us to use too much money, and prefer to save money. for use if we want go travel, or whatever. My wife work as a nurse, and have a good income, and therefore could be independent if she want. When i read about the bad relationship it has always the background from the bar environment. And this is because most western men go to the bar for only 1 reason. I have never been… Read more »
Edgar Atiles
Edgar Atiles

Your the rare exception not the rule . I congratulate you on your lucky roll of the dice but don’t forget the game continues and women are fickle my friend . Good luck

puifai
puifai
seriously, you guys should change the topic to “Thai bar girl…” not “all Thai girl…” very disgusting talk in here. I’m Thai girl and I like to talk with foreigner and actually I never talked with them for money. and i believe that many business owners got money from banks, not just a few money from foreigner men (your money isn’t enough to do anything dude. Especially in those big tourism cities). You know what? i always get answers from foreigners that they come to Thailand to pattaya, Bangkok or phuket just for sex and night life. And if yall… Read more »
phil
phil

Yamita , girls working in Pattaya come from those quiet town you speak about.
Well if kind kind is a rare ressource it jsut means she does not represent the Thai population.
Just statitics

davo
davo

Well said George.

George Kennedy
George Kennedy
Hi. Well it’s the age old debate, I came here as a young man with my job 22 years ago. I regularly travel to the UK. I am solvent, in decent shape and have no problem meeting women in any country. So the debate is simply that Thai women want your money. The answer is not so simple, farangs come to Thailand in search of love (sex) they usually meet with someone who is a bar girl or on a low income. Their is hope that you will support them and yes family comes first. This is an integral part… Read more »
Chris
Chris

Well said and so true , when come here in the first place have to accept that its just another culture , consider why one is working in a bar or a bank ; I have met both , good & bad from both sides .
Stop generalise and most of all dont lie to yourself !!

Care
Care

Thailand people are generous and unselfish. Working in a bar did not show up to something bad.??

Gp
Gp

My girlfriend is thai, yes there are some bad and some good everywhere, u just have to find the right one . And we love each other so much and when ur love is true money,age, distance are just a number. We havnt meet each other yet but we are together whole day by messaging and skype ,i know she is not into money cuz she is rich she is working and she knows im not rich . Im planing to go and settle down in thailand and get married to my girl. Hope we will be together soon……

Martin
Martin
You havent met your girlfriend but you know you love her and going to marry her… Welcome to thailand… They will love you there… I can only assume the female companionship in your life has been quite minimal. If i am correct Gp i can also assume you have not gone thailand before.. I love it there, i go 2-3 times a year for the past 10yrs and 90% of the girls will make you feel that you are the only one they want to spend the rest of their life with.. My advice advice to all that have never… Read more »
David Edward Lee
David Edward Lee

This is an interesting artical but could be condensed to a few simple statements.
1, If you come to Thailand looking for female companionship, you will get ripped off at least once.
2, If you are an ageing ‘gentleman’ ask yourself if this beautiful young woman with you wants your charm or your money.
I have worked in business in Thailand with women holding full time respectable jobs. Mary are as bigger rogues as your typical bar girl. I don’t make a distinction between bar girls and hookers.

Pawinee
Pawinee

Hello there,

I am a Thai girl. I heard many times that All Thai girls are bad and only do want some money.

I cannot say that all Thai women are good but If someone tell you about it, ask them where they meet her.

They just go to the wrong place so how they meet the right one?

Miami007
Miami007
I would not agree with the comment that all “hookers”/ escorts have bad character – that seems to be a bit too much of a generalization. I met a Thai girl (from Isaan) who works as an escort in London – I live in Miami. (BTW, many girls enter a contract to pay GBP 30,000 / USD 50,000 to get the job, visa etc – and hope to make enough money in 6 months to pay back the contract, save money and then go home and buy a business. At GBP 100/ hour income for them, you can calculate how… Read more »
Denarion
Denarion

I am married to a thai lady now from Isaan.. Also got a kid with her.. She started when I first saw her around 10.000 bath.. this has now risen to 30.000 – 40.000 bath.. No I have not taken her home yet..

Terence
Terence
I went to Thailand for first time in 1988 at a very young age. It was easy for me to do the bar scene because I was probably the youngest farang about so never had to pay, apart from meals or going to the cinema. I would not say I was good looking or ugly just average looking but normally every girl at the end of my hand was drop dead gorgeous which would not have been the case back in England. Everyone of those girls were probably parading me as much because I was so young compared to there… Read more »
ahmed
ahmed

Looking for “good girl” just stay away from bar!! That the rule!

Almost everyone said that thai girl are bad…. but to be honest, is theres any good girl in the bar? Fyi; here in the east… no good girl working in the bar!! Note it!!

gazza
gazza

Absolutely true…I have had 3 good Thai girls..didn’t drink or smoke…all at one stage wanted money

J Main
J Main

Thai women are world class hustlers. You will fall in love and then she will ask for money. That’s the way it works.

raskor54
raskor54
okay. I will start working and living in thailand from starting next year. I am very well educated,and handsome, if I can give an example I had sex with an attractive girl,whom I did not met before, just sit in bus next to me and we started touching each other after a min.. .Also it happened in a conservative muslim country. Anyway I am not really social but not bad either. The reason of I am going to thailand is not hookers or sex related. I like to party sometimes but in fact I dont even drink or smoke. I… Read more »
Martin
Martin
Ive been going thailamd now just over 10yrs now.. Yes thai girls want your money… thats because it is a low wage income country.. on average around 500 baht a day.. thai girls need money usually to send to their parents as they do not have an income and usually they are looking after their baby or babies. The thai government does not help thai people in giving them money…A pensioner in thailand gets 500 baht a month to live on from the government… thats for food and everything. So obviously thai girls are looking for Farang to help or… Read more »
Ronnie
Ronnie
There seems to be one basic, fundamental problem that is being missed here. As for any country in the world, there are nice, genuine, decent girls around, who mix within their social circles and form relationships from within those social circles. So, your a guy who is over 25, what age does not matter, and you meet married people who know other married people. All the nice, cute girls are meeting the guy she met at University, and you work in a place with six hundred people, where there are two cute single girls and being naturally yourself in such… Read more »