Why Thai Girls Make Better Girlfriends Than Western Women

Last updated: January 29th, 2020 | in Thai Girls

Yesterday I had a few beers with a German girl friend and as we talked about life in Thailand she came up with this straightforward question:

Why do you prefer Thai girls to western girls?

And even though I’m sure she knew some of the reasons already there are many things she can’t know as she never had the pleasure of calling a Thai girl her girlfriend.

Thai Girls don’t complain as much as Western Women

Sure you can piss off any girl if you muck around, come home late (or not at all), don’t reply to her text message or whatever but the difference is western women just seem to wait for reasons to get mad at you and they are also a lot more resentful than any Thai girl will ever be. Small things are big things for western women and so you will never meet a Thai girl that gets angry because you left the toilet seat up. Even if you really make a Thai girl angry and that doesn’t happen much at all she will forgive you anything, even having banged her best friend.

Thai Girls let you be the boss in the relationship

If you tell your Thai girlfriend about what you want to do on the weekend she will simply go like yes cool let’s do that. She won’t say I wanna go to Hua Hin when you suggest going to Pattaya. Thai girls let you make the decisions what you are going to do together, when you are going to do it (Let’s go eating now, I’m hungry) and how you are going to do it (Let’s only go for a few hours, I wanna meet up with my friend later). Western girls always want to do the planning and at least try to achieve some compromises: If we do this today, we are going to do that tomorrow, ok?

Thai Girls are better than Western WomenThai Girls have a nicer body than Western Girls

It’s strange but even though most Thai girls (and guys as well) are generally dead lazy when it comes to fitness and sports and still they don’t get fat and keep their beautiful bodies. While western girls run to the yoga or fitness studio every second day but still you barely see a really thin and skinny girl walking on the street.

Statistics prove anyway that western countries like America, Australia and by now also Western Europe have the highest percentage of fat women in the world. And besides the fact that’s it’s really easy to find a thin girlfriend in Thailand it’s obviously also the smooth and soft skin that western women are extremely jealous and western guys extremely fond of.

Thai Girls are more beautiful than Western Girls

That’s a matter of taste of course but for me there is no doubt that the average looking Thai girl is ten times as attractive as the average looking Western girl.

Thai Girls are better housewives than Western Girls

It’s almost impossible these days to find a young Western girl that is really good in cooking and even if you do, she expects you to do the laundry instead, sweep the floor or make up the bed. Thai girls know that housework is their job. Believe it or not one of my Thai student girlfriends made me smile as I was about to start cleaning my room on a Saturday morning and she found it funny and asked me why I want to do it.

Thai Girls have a nicer smile and are always optimistic

Thai girls don’t just have a nicer and brighter smile, they also smile much more often than Western girls. Besides that Thai girls are also much more open and optimistic about simply everything and never think too much about some bad thing that happened or a problem they have, they just go and try to make the best out of every situation without worrying too much. Thai girls always seem to be happy and really enjoying life and let you feel that while western girls usually expect their boyfriend to entertain and make them feel good.

That’s all my personal opinion of course, but I know many foreigners in Thailand who think exactly the same. And if you have a Western girlfriend and consider moving to Thailand with her then please read this post before.

65 Responses

  • Martin says:

    Thai ladies are true honest ladies..of course you can get a prostitute but if you want to have a great relationship when it comes to Thai ladies you will not go wrong. As long as you dont want to meet up with a very good looking babe who wants you to take them back to the U.K. for marriage, you can’t go wrong.

  • Peenoy says:

    I’ve been dating my Thai gf (now fiancée) for 4 years, give or take. A huge gap in the discussion here is the Farang’s character. Surely that is equally important and in many ways will determine the behaviour and response of the Thai woman involved. If the Farang is kind, empathetic, shows her affection no matter how she looks on a particular day, she will see that he really loves her and will feel happy with him and show her contentment. My gf earns a large wage for Thailand whereas I live in an economically depressed part of Europe, intending to move when circumstances allow to a city where work is more easily available. Money is an issue but she sees that I’m doing my best, and knows how much I love her and returns that love. If she was after money – not love – she would have abandoned me a long time ago. Any Farang who wants to win a Thai woman’s heart should show her love above all – unconditional love. Thai women are very passionate, warm, full of life, and many bad experiences one hears about may be due to her Farang man’s character – not hers. Of course there will be gold diggers who set a price on themselves that only fools will pay; but for every one of those there are many more who will make their Farang partners proud.

    I find the beauty of Thai women breathtaking quite often. Out of the blue, I will be offered the most dazzling smile I have ever have seen from a passing woman with nothing to gain. Whether a lottery ticket seller, room maid, bottle recycler, road worker, young or old – Thai women are so full of life and cheerful that it gladdens the heart.

  • James says:

    Of course they are nice to you while you’re dating, and let me tell you one thing: they are dating with you while having a particular goal in mind- marriage; these girls are sweet and loving, they will tell you how much they want to have a child with you and build family- and eventually they will convince you into marrying. And that’s my friend when you will see their true nature: they will expect you to pay for everything, not just for them but also for their relatives back home in Thailand; they will establish their rules and you will obey whether you want it or not- simply because that’s how it works, and you are just a stupid farang who will end up being controlled by his Thai wife and her family.

  • Michael Ryan says:

    I’m sorry but feminism is a movement aiming to establish equality between the sexes.

    Are you saying we should go back to the bad old days when women were forced to be homemakers who were completely dependent on men?

    When they couldn’t vote?

    When they couldn’t apply for credit cards and loans in their own name?

    When most professions were closed to them?

    Really?

    Firstly, good luck with that.

    Secondly, why do you want women to be treated as second class citizens? Is it because you’re afraid of them or something?

  • Michael Ryan says:

    Thank you Mai. As someone who dated a Thai woman for a couple of years, I find the whole “Thai girls are submissive” meme hilarious.

    If anything, she was more assertive than the average “western woman” (whatever that means, everyone is unique) and this sometimes led to heated arguments.

    I feel like anyone who goes looking for a relationship in a particular country because they think the women there are “submissive” and “docile” has serious issues.

    Those sort of people are looking for a servant, not a partner.

    • Marcus F says:

      yaiks! It’s still classing out the very people that are hearthily just looking to secure good sex. Honestly, I’m married to a Chinese not a Thai, but same descriptions apply. Albeit, Chinese are rasists above anything else, nobody can truly understand this money-family-abuse-all-others -mentality besides Chinese. For what I know, Thai’s skip this racial part, but keep the blood over marriage issue. Yes, about sex, social aspects of what’s deemeable and what is not varies greatly, even among those greatly blatanted Western countries.
      Would one ever in the height of that climax remember that the greatest lie is not the one told to another person, but the lie told to oneself. She is beautiful, young (not so much…).
      As one rather experienced older gentleman told me years ago, at night you can see all these beautifull, young slender women around street corners, but await the morning sunshine reveals all these elder, short and fat ladies yapping their way to work and mongering in the street corner. “It must be the water (semen) they drank at night” he said with a blink of an eye. I guess if you can read between the lines, he was quite right, don’t you think so?

  • Patrick says:

    What is wrong with people these days just because technological advancements have been made , there is still nothing wrong some older traditional family values like other post said it’s not sexist if female cleans they just in general clean better than us guys, or cook better ,sometimes guys cook better ,people take things so to the extreme , I would love to meet a Thai women have fellow worker that has Thai wife loves her, but about prostitution it’s one of the oldest occupations everywhere, most of time its like strip clubs the ones that complain the most is because they cant keep thete SO out of them, idk I hope the guy that was sick lives the rest of his time to the fullest, my prayers go out to you, but people over react about everything I am old fashioned and it’s hard to find a faithful moral person these days in general anywhere but maybe I need trip to Thailand, sounds fun.

  • Fyza Hosaimi says:

    I am not a Thai, but I’m an Asian who lives in Singapore and frequent to Thailand. I have made lots of Thai gfs over there, and yes, I do agree that they are so easy to love compared to the Western women. Now, don’t get me wrong, I am straight and I do have some gfs from America as well. The thing I don’t quite like about my Western gfs, were that, their expectations can be absurd when it comes to the men they want to date or marry.

    I still think, there are some nice American women out there, though. Those who’s not into feminism. But hell yeah, I love the Thai women too! So much!

  • Depressed when home says:

    Probably because western women are rude, self-centered, and arrogant. As an American man who’s travelled the world I can tell you Americans are the worst people on the planet.

  • tridev says:

    Absolute stupidity to say that thai women are better and western women are worse or the vice versa.
    As long as man has money in his pocket he has women on his bed. This is the universal truth and it doesn’t matter whether the women are Thai, American, Russian or Martian. If you have money you can make even a Mermaid Looking White Chick clean your toilet while you do her a** from behind. If you don’t have money even a Somalian woman will leave you.
    I request all men to realize that for women, whether she is a CEO of Fortune 100 company or a welcome welcome screaming Go Go bar girl, if you are poor you won’t have a pussy, either asian or white.

  • Jared says:

    I have been blessed to have worked all over the world for several months at a time from my 20’s to 35. I have lived in, met, or dated Swedish, Korean, Filipino, Canadian, African, British, Finish, Russian, Mexican, and many American women. I never dated just for sex and funny enough, after traveling to Thailand as a single male, I got plenty of dirty comments and insinuations from friends upon return, despite that I did not have sex once while traveling in Thailand. It is sad that Thailand has become a place labelled as the Sex Destination for white Farang.

    If you are single a guy who meets a women in Roppongi or Pattaya or Cabo or any other party place, she will have a ‘girl’s gone wild’ mentality, but one cannot generalize that all strippers or bar going girls are bad, uneducated, or have gold digger ambitions. It’s a sad fact that parts of the Asian world have a surplus of single women and families without a lot of money, hence people get into that business more out of love for their family and desperation or they move to the big city to make it big.

    If you don’t think it happens in America. IT DOES. I worked in Hollywood as well and you would not believe that 99% of the gorgeous women who comes to ‘make it’ in Hollywood end up waiting tables, as single mothers in their 30’s, stripping, or worse… They do this while waiting for a dream to come true or to prove to their family back in the mid-west somewhere that they are falsely doing great because they were a background extra or got their first SAG card. Does anyone ever truly want to admit they are a failure?

    I think you will find that a much higher percentage of those met-in-a-bar type scene do not work out in the long run. As one British guy who posts You Tube videos about why Thai women are amazing, ‘You have to look in the right place’ and get a ‘clear picture of the type of woman you want in your life’, which is absolutely true.

    A year after my trip, I met a women in the US whom I ended up marrying. Ironically, it turns out she is Thai and was raised in Thailand and went to a school in the US afterward for college.

    I love my wife. Yes, there are times when she is the most loving and affectionate person in the world and other times where it has to be her way and there is no discussion. The funny thing is that I was dating a knock-out tall American blond green-eyed Germanic decent women right before I met my wife, whom would probably be a 9 out of 10 for most guys. She was a Christian and affectionate as well. The sad part if that she never truly opened up and we never discussed what was bothering her about our relationship and she felt dating was something you casually do on a weekend if nothing else is going on. She slowly found little things to bring up and argue about, so that she didn’t have to feel like the evil one breaking it off. (The major reason is that I snore like a freight train, which would wake her up all the time)

    That being said, my Thai wife was raised in Thailand by a good family, went to good schools, and is technically more successful than myself. SHe accepts me with my faults. Things that I notice setting her apart from other women would be her ability to let an argument completely go within hours if not 30 minutes after it happens. She always wants kisses and hugs, which is happily surprising and welcome over any other women I’ve ever dated. We don’t have earth shattering sex, but when it happens, it’s great. She is a fantastic cook, the stuff she makes looks like it came from an Asian fusion restaurant. Regarding money, this is a tough subject. She chooses to accept which aspect of American and Thai culture suits her. As the man, I am to take care of the household, pay for the house and provide a life for both of us (Thai mentality) despite that she makes more than me. The reality is that this is not possible in the area we live, wherein a normal sized home requires a DINC (Dual Income No Kids). It means I have to struggle to meet her ideal. Does she do my every request? No, however she does want to make me happy and for us to have a good life, so we are shooting for that. She had a cheating ex, so I also have to contend with the baggage left from that previous relationship regarding money that he stole from her. She can be clingy, especially when we first dated. If I wanted a day or two to myself, she took it personally as if it meant there was some reason I did not want to be with her anymore. Does she sometimes pick and choose which Thai vs American culture ideals suits her best like me paying for our wedding? Yes. However it is a sacrifice I make and she makes many in return.

    Summary: Women from all over the world want one thing from a true relationship. To feel good and have the security of a loving and supportive husband or boyfriend. If you love her and make her feel special, she will take that like water in a garden and bloom with love in return. If you leave her at home to do all your chores for ten years and expect her to be your love slave, that is not likely sustainable, even if she seems ok with it for the first year. If you cheat on her or lying on the phone, that suspicion will enter the relationship and she will never truly trust you.

    For those American women who are awesome out there, I feel bad for you as well. I know there are good ones that get thrown in with all manipulative ones and stand your ground girl and don’t be afraid to take off the dominant successful women and show that you are also vulnerable.

    If a woman came into a bar at night and said in a loud demanding voice “My car broke down, who can change it for me?”, maybe one guy might shrug his shoulder and get off his bar stool. If a different feminine and vulnerable women came into that same bar and showed her fear of being all alone at night, trembling, sad, and in a sweet but hopeful soft voice said “My car broke down and I’m all alone out there and it’s dark. Can one of your gentlemen please help me to get on my way.” The entire bar would stand up and go outside to help the poor lady. Why? Because she admitted to needing help and protection and did not hide behind a false and strong fake exterior like bi-sexual woman pretending to be a man. Every man wants a chance to feel valuable, to be the white Knight to save the damsel in distress and save the day, if only you give him the chance instead of laughing at his lesser traits with your friends. Many Thai women and women from other countries respect the man enough to give him this opportunity, so he takes to that like a fish to water.

  • Rick says:

    My experience:
    Nice guy… taken advantage of by various Western women. Eventually gave up on them after 20 years of failed relationships. Have heard being too nice a complaint.
    Nice guy… deeply appreciated by Thai women.
    Very happy in a relationship with a Thai woman for 8 years now, we have 2 kids together. Never argued once, and I’m at home all day too! We’re never apart. Remarkable.

  • Dalo says:

    Old farang husband here . It seems Thai ladies in any walk of life really appreciate being treated courteously and respectfully . In fact Thai people value courtesy and respond in kind . If you are a jerk or a fool you’ll find someone to take advantage of you . Even ‘working girls’ appreciate good manners .
    The Thai are the most good hearted people I have experienced in the world . Of course there are exceptions but ,by and large they are happy people .
    My Thai wife is now late 40’s . I am retired . We laugh so often . She has changed my whole world because she is so cheerful . She is also careful with money .
    So yes , it can work out . If you’re a decent guy that is . A good woman can change your world and make life worth living . Make yourself worthy !

  • Pixie says:

    I have been with a farang man for a short while, more than a year of being friends and then a few months of dating. Ended up being left alone. Is that how it is with farangs? They can wait for years to get you to submit to them but after getting in your pants for awhile and get what they want, they just left. Girls from the East doesn’t make better girlfriends than western girls, its how the men behave that make them better. A girl make herself beautiful (inside and out) for the man who appreciate her. I am extremely hurt, if only being hurt emotionally can be seen as being hurt physically, maybe there will be a strict law against these.

  • Rawrr says:

    Swedish girl? hahaha yea some of them look pretty when they are under 20 y old and some of them look so ugly. It is the same like everywhere in the world. In my opinion the only thing swedish girls have more than thai girls is boobs and ass. If you just wanna have easy sex one night stand then go for swedish woman. In my point they are cheating more than thai woman coz they can have sex with anyone anywhere if they horny and no matter if they are married have kids or not. They fucking arounds like is nothing.

    I live in same house with one swedish girl she live with her bf which is my bf’s little brother. She live here for 5 years and she do nothing in the house. She not work not clean not cook not do anything.She live in his bf’s life and I could accept if she could at least clean after her shit but no she never do. She is so extremely selfish and lazy I ever seen. ( and many Swedish girls is like that) she always want fancy luxury stuff but never work for it. She sit in her room all day everyday sometimes go to gym to take selfie pictures and post on social media. Like she work hard at gym but never do house work and always leave everywhere dirty.She is so discusting.
    I try to find the good thing on her but is none.

    I’m a Thai woman who have swedish boyfriend. He is 4 years older than me. My bf have last gf 7 years ago and was not swedish girl. After that he just dating playing arounds with many Swedish easy girls and none of them he want to have relationship with. Coz most of them like that girl I talked about before.
    Don’t say that thai woman want only money but yea some want and some not. Same as every country even swedish girls. When you talk with money bitchs listen. Swedish girls they want everything from their guy and think they are most important like they are the center of universe. And always argue for nothing. And cheating like discusting.

    BTW. I am thai who live in Sweden 4 years have bachelor in Thailand and education in Sweden. I’m work as a teacher for 2 years now. And I don’t need to live on someone’s life coz I have work and money. I can say that my bf is poor than me. So if you think thai girls want to be with farang coz of money then I wanna puke on you coz some of us are richer than you and many farang.
    And I am sure I’m look better than many Swedish girls you have been or date with ( some of them are probably ugly inside out and smelly and more.)
    So should not compare thai girls with another country coz you will find the worse in your country.
    Many Swedish girls think they are bossy smart but they’ re not they just talk much shit and have a peanut brain.

    Also about cleaning cooking in the house. A child 3 years old would know what to do but swedish girls don’t. And we are thai who do work at home some do for please their partner and some including me do because we have to do anyway no matter where you live and I want my place clean and nice and my bf will be happy too to live in clean place then we both are happy.
    But is true when someone say if you good to thai girl 10 times they will give you back 100 times. Coz we always have to work hard in our life and if someone good to us or do something to us we will appreciate all and is real. We are polite humble and caring. We want out partner to feel the best then we will feel happy.

    And yes not like swedish girls who only think about themselves.

  • PO says:

    Many of Old Farang man find a Thai young girl to be girlfriend. It same age with their daughter. WHY!!! why the girl lost their life time with the old man. Not because of money? I think they should KNOW!! I don’t like the old Farang man who do like this! And I don’t like the Thai girl who just want money from other person by not work!! Because Thai girl like me worked hard to got a little money but some Farang man looked at me like the Thai-money-sex-girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Rob S. says:

    Answer! Lol. I’m curious, if white Americans only want Thai women to “bang”, why complain? You use a girl, she uses you. I’d like to find a Thai girl (Woman) with character and integrity, it seems some have written replies here. I’m an older guy, 57, and these things are what’s important to me. Question, how does Thai women in the states differ from Thai women in their homeland, and…how do you find a Thai woman? I’m curious, I’m looking for a long term loving relationship based on mutual respect, not based on materialistic, or sexual things as the foundation/ in other words two people who want love, does that even exist anymore? Some replies here make Americans sound like idiots out for only one thing…sheeesh.

    • IS Pattra says:

      Okay then tell me one thing, if you’re mainly looking for a relationship on mutual respect, would you be attracted to and willing to date an older Thai women aged 57 and over?

  • miinx says:

    Nice, very reassuring.

  • miinx says:

    I have to agree with you, although I have never had a Thai woman as a girlfriend/wife I find them incredibly beautiful but I can’t comment on anything else about them as I have no experience.
    I do however have have experience with western woman.
    I was married for 10 years to what I thought was a beautiful caring British girl. As soon as our first child was born and things got tough (money got tight) she just changed. She turned out to be a selfish, self centred, 2 timing gold digger, oh did i mention she is a pathological liar? I mean the worst I’ve ever seen. Needless to say we are now divorced and she continues to hunt for the next victim. She’s just recently latched onto a very rich and very old guy (sorry old guys, no disrespect, I’m probably considered one myself but her motives are pretty clear..) Jackpot!… zeroed in and ready for the kill.
    I think my point here is western girls are just as bad and if not worse than the negative posts about Thai women on this site.
    Bottom line, there are good and bad people wherever you go.
    I’m in contact with (hopefully) a very nice Thai woman. Very beautiful, amazing skin and seems to have a heart of gold.
    I’m on my way to spend some time with her soon and she booked and payed for the accommodation, she didn’t even give me a chance to intervene and got quite offended when I insisted on giving her the money back, she has a good job (which is probably not great comparing with western standards) and a car and lives outside of the city. ie. not a “working girl”
    I’m on this site because I’ve heard so many horror stories (here included… lol ) and considering my past experience I thought i’d do some research but have come to the conclusion that as I said, people are people… so I’m going to see what happens.
    All, well most (maybe) people just want to care for someone and to be cared for in return so I’m hoping the generalisations in these posts are just that, generalisations…

    Wish me luck :)

  • naynay says:

    I work in a large all girls high school here and to say the majority of Thai girls and women are thin, docile home makers and enjoy being doormat wives is just pure fiction. There is huge variation like any population of woman.
    Some of the craziest and irrationally jealous partners are hands down thai woman.. They will also not hesitate to cheat if they are for any reason slighly unhappy or the old farang bf is out of town…often cheating with thai men.
    I really dont think the younger generation are much different from western women my age. My office is full of thai women and none of them are thin, smiley or quiet..

    Whats more, i dont think ive ever come across a student whos dreams resembled marrying a sexist white bloke who wants them to know whos boss and cook and clean for them all day. Most describe dreams of getting into good unis, travelling, Studying abroad, working in their chosen proffession or about cute korean popstars. some even tell me they can’t wait to be away from the responsibilities of home and school and doing whats expected.
    I really don’t think thai girls are much different from other girls their age, they just have less opportunitiies and financial freedom/priveledge. They just wanna be loved and understood like everyone else. Yes our cultures are different but we have more in common than not.

    I’m not sure why it’s a competition between who is better, if you prefer thai women because you see them as a better fit/more attractive for you, good on you. I also prefer thai men for a number of reasons and have been with my thai partner 5 years, I don’t feel the need to slag every western guy I’ve ever been with and blame western men for all that’s wrong with the world. I’m not gonna call you all fat, white hairy whales just because my man is still in perfect shape with beautiful skin and perfect teeth and hair. Because I know it doesnt reduce your value as a human being.

    • Laura says:

      What a crock of crap!!!! You live in a dream world western men thinking it’s easier with a Thai woman!!! I am western woman, been and lived in Thailand. You go to Pattaya looking for love!!! What a joke, it’s a city full of prostitutes/whores, whichever way you look at it- willing and happy to tell you/do anything for money “hello sexy man” to man of 25 stone in string vest, socks and sandals! She’s there as a service! Not to find love!

      Give me a break. I have a male friend, only 30 years old, married to Thai woman who openly, and happily, slaps him in the face when she isn’t happy in front of everyone and doesn’t think twice to tear a strip off him and undermines him in front of his friends- this rarely happens in the western world!!! They are angry, manipulative, violent and loud women, but come across as nice and quiet- that’s because they want something from you!! (Like you with them!!)

      The guy on this thread talking about the Thai woman happy to spend hours sucking him off and having sex with him is obviously a prostitute who knows her job well!!!! Lol!!! Idiot!!! If your stupid enough to stay with her and lose all your wordly belongings then so be it, at least the sex was good!! (Even if your left with nothing- this show’s how very stupid western men are and how they deserve what they get!)

      JUST REMEMBER, MONEY NUMBER 1, NOT LOVE, NOT SEXY MAN- JUST MONEY! ONCE IT’S GONE, THEY’RE GONE!!!

    • BILL MICHAEL says:

      +naynay; Thank you for being so kind in your comment to us old foolish white men.
      Thais are such beautiful people. I wish I had been born and grown up Thai.

    • Randy Morris says:

      No disrespect ma’am, but I feel like you’re just being a hater????

  • Scottz says:

    I liked how you phrased the last part of your sentence

    Meeeoooowwww~~~:3

    I also don’t believe all Thai women are submissive as well

  • Jeff says:

    Wow. No dummy. Your husband cheats on you. We like Thai girls (and women in general) who are submissive. Those two facts have nothing to do with eachother. Please understand that.

  • Olga says:

    I think that there are beautiful women in all countries. We are all individuals and I would never use or abuse any human being.

  • Andrew says:

    I find it amazing that no one has mentioned how fantastic Thai women are in the bedroom. They really put more effort into pleasing their man than Western women. I’ve never been with a Western woman who could compare to the complete and total devotion that Thai girls have in the bedroom- Thai girls are very attentive, considerate and devoted lovers who truly want to please you and make you happy.

    They have amazing bodies- and know how to use them to make their man happy! I have a thai fiance that I have been engaged to for 7 years, and she never stops pulling out all the stops to spoil me in the bedroom.. I still am treated like a king every single day! From the moment she wakes me up in the morning with her head between my legs and under the covers- whether she is treating me to a nice, long sensual tongue massage or maximizing my pleasure by bringing me to the brink… only to stop and then slowly start up again over and over and over again. She is just completely tuned into my body and what she wants to do to me is just to make me happy- to put a smile on my face before she makes me breakfast. Sometimes she will come and visit me at work midday so she can bring me my lunch and then playfully show me the panties she is wearing- to make me think about her for the rest of the afternoon, eager to get home so we can have another round of fun in the bedroom that we started in the morning!

    In the evening when I come home, she is ready for me. If I am hungry and want to eat dinner- it’s ready within minutes. If I want a massage- she is ready to take care of me no matter if it is with a nude, wet nuru massage, or a hot towel and stone massage. She will sing softly and she rubs and kneads my tension away and never stops until I am satisfied. She never complains, never says “No” and makes me feel like I am the only man in the world.

    Western women are raised to be strong and independent and focused on themselves, while Thai women are raised to be submissive, obediant and completely devoted to their man.

    One more thing worth mentioning is their outstanding physical shape compared to Western Women. And I’m not just referring to their slender frames and low body fat, but their flexibility and muscle control. I’ve noticed that Thai girls love certain positions based upon their partner’s preference. For instance, my fiance loves to be on top of me in Cowgirl- especially since she feels like she is in control and can set the tempo to ride all day. But here is a crucial difference between Thai women and Western women: Where as Western women might try the Asian Cowgirl position for a couple of minutes once a week or so, Thai women would work at mastering the Asian Cowgirl position every day- because she knows how much men enjoy the physical and visual stimulation of the more difficult Asian Cowgirl position, she sees it as part of her housework and duty to her man to master the position. And although that position may be difficult to perform for very long, Thai girls simply see that as a challenge. My fiance does squat thrusts every day- just so she can have the stamina to perform this position for extra long extended sessions in the bedroom!

    And the muscle control that they have over their bodies is mind-melting. Whereas western women kinda do kegels, (usually after child birth) and can gently squeeze their muscles, thai women are taught to do kegels in their teens. After a decade or so of kegel muscle exercises, thai women can control their vaginal muscles to methodically grip and relax at the same time. The sensation feels like she is massaging me inside her, and I can feel her rippling her muscles up and down. This sensation is very deliberate in Asian Cowgirl and she will seductively ask me if I can feel her playing my “flute” as she works her hips like a corkscrew, moving in a wide clockwise direction while going slowly up and down and moving side to side; all the while rhythmically massaging me inside her.

    Once again, Thai girls pull out all the stops all the time to make sure their man is completely satisfied with their intimacy, as Thai women feel it is their duty to make their man happy in the bedroom and in the household. And thai girls simply aren’t happy until you are happy- but always let them know that there is always more room for improvement. You want to encourage them to keep up the 90% good work, but remind them that there is still 10% more work before you will be 100%. Thai girls like my fiance will see that 10% as a challenge and continue to wake me up in the morning with a smile on my face and her lips on another place; completely devoted to me and to giving me pleasure..

    And this essentially the difference between Western women and Thai women- as it seems that western women almost have the opposite attitude and expect the man to make them happy. Whereas the Thai women expect them to make their man happy.

    Western women: “Happy wife, happy life”.
    Thai women: “Happy Man is my plan”

    • Greg says:

      Great comments Andrew and very well written from somebody with first hand experience.
      I have been to Thailand a number of times and do appreciate how the women go to that extra effort to make their men happy.
      Tying to tell and Ausie girl some of the positives you have highlited just gets the standard old “Oh you think they are just great because of the sex they offer” but as you say most of the ausie girls wouldn’t even give 20% of the effort to their men in anything they do in comparison to Thai girls.
      And they take such pride in their work be it doing your toenails or making love to you!!
      Great comments loved them` -good luck to you and your Thai girl

    • Michael Ryan says:

      Sounds like you want a slave, not a partner.

      • Matt H says:

        Michael Ryan is a typical whipped western man.
        Men are taught that if you like a woman making you happy, then you must want a slave, because apparently relationships arent about making each others life better anymore :/

        I pity him, his gf/wife must make him miserable and he prefers that. No good sex for him because that makes her a slave.
        No sacrifice or doing things for him that she doesnt already want for herself because that makes her too submissive.

        I guess that means he never does anything to make her happy either. He never goes out of his way for sure, otherwise he becomes her slave.
        I really do prefer to avoid most western men when I am in Asia so I dont have to meet pathetic men like him.

  • john says:

    Thai girls think marry to a western guy is superior. Same like Chinese women. So many white old guys can marry younger Chinese girls.

  • Steve Anderson says:

    Sorry, but this is BS. Thai women are lying whores, period. I unfortunately was in a four year relationship with a Thai woman in Minneapolis, MN after she moved here from Chiang Mai to be a nanny.. After years of deceptive and selfish acts by her I finally let her go and feel so relieved! She was a pathological liar, sent to America by her family to screw white guys and take their money so she can send it home to her family. She’s now an illegal alien and her main purpose in life is to find a guy to marry for their money and her green card. No matter what she says that is her number one priority. She comes off as a “good girl” who has a “high education” but it’s all apart of one big lie, she tries to make you believe she has a heart and that she’s different than other Thai girls you read about but she is a cheating liar. She was screwing another guy while I was shopping for a new BMW for her. Sex means nothing to her, it’s like lunch or using the toilet. She’ll always say she’s the best while referring to all American women as Bitches. She’s jealous beyond belief because she projects – it’s her that does the cheating. Thank god she’s out of my life, it would have cost me hundreds of thousands of dollars over the years. I make about a million a year. I’ve since found a beautiful American woman that’s more of a peer, she’s monogamous and trustworthy. I’ll never date a Thai woman again.

    • john says:

      Very true. Thai girls are sweet before they get what they want. Turn to a Bitch when they gain enough from you or you cant provide what they ask for. Mainly, its all about money.

      I wonder how thai girls like knitting while thailand is such a country without winter. They knit for men to mislead them feel their love. All are tricks. I was a fool to be used as a stepping stone. I gave her PR, I gave her fancy clothings. Eventually, she told me I didnt love her enough and she married another man for more money gift.

      • james d hummer says:

        Most certainly true, Sir. I would imagine that Knitting in a nation that has No Winter would, or should, be a Dead Giveaway that the woman has an Ulterior Motive other than You.

    • Otto says:

      What do you do where you make 1 million a year?

    • Kat says:

      You need to read a book called private dancer. It’s fantasic – and backs up your comment 100%. I find the guys who like thai girls are either controling, manipulative and callous or just to blind to see the real deal.Thai girls will do anything but are also conniving, pathalogical liar’s and will say anything to get them out of troble ?

    • Lattana says:

      Well said I fully agreed to your letter . I’m from Laos and living in England for long time and yes I met many Thai girls who married English man and yes they only married for money and get a better life for themselves and they family in Thailand. I have no respect for them and yes they do anything for money. They all as bad as each other Thai girl. I am agreeing everything you mentioned.

      • james d hummer says:

        Well, I am a tax Accountant from Pennsylvania, and I have numerous clients from Thailand, Laos, Vietnam, and adjoining nations. My one long term Laotian client (25 years) since he moved to America had strongly suggested that Laotian Women are the Most Devoted Women from Southeastern Asia. My client, Ngia X. (yes, his last name begins with ‘X’) tells me that Laotian females are much more devoted to Her Man than the adjoining nations, Vietnam and Thailand. The reasoning he projected to me was due to laotian Women have the Deepest Faith in their religion, primarily Buddhism. Would you suggest that this client of mine is telling me The Truth …. or not??

    • stephanie says:

      Yep…lol…you rock…this is true…I was loving and devoted to a rich man…have my own luxury vehicle i bought…did anything he wanted…I found oUT i was pregnant whIle he was preparing to go on sex tourism vaction unbeknownst to me..,he left to Thailand to sleep with ugly subpar hookers. God will get him. He had me in the palm of his hand but threw me in the trash so he could date slime. I loved him, didn’t know he was rich…didn’t care. But now I see it’s just baby and me…he can go. I don’t need him anymore. I deserve better…far better.

    • P. says:

      I’m Thai.And I live in Chaing Mai.I’m very sorry to hear that. Hope you finally find good woman.

  • Vernika Cat says:

    Hahaha please do not generalize! But maybe most of them are not really good at all!

    Im not a Thai woman. I just had an Italian ex bf who had Thai ex gf. This Thai girl at her late 20’s, I just talked for 3x times, at the first intervals, she was nice and on the third time, she loses her tempt on me. I don’t know my ex Italian was uptight to her. Until I found out this Thai girl’s unnatural and unreasonable ideas about relationship. For her, it was not an issue if her bf would like other girls sexy pics and not being fb friend for a while (truly this was my case with my Italian ex as I told her about it) maybe she’s doing the same that’s why she would let it. Also she judge me easily without knowing who I am really, and she acted stupid by chatting me HAHAHA and THAT’s FUNNY! Her attitude is sick.

    Plus she’s narrow minded and low level of mind set. My Italian ex bf told me, when they were together in Thailand, her Thai ex heard a Korean girl saying that she liked to get laid with him (Korean girl just murmured). What the Thai ex did was made a scandal with the Korean girl, she poured her a beverage on her head! What an trashy attitude was that!

    The Thai girl is working in a 5 star hotel as a Communication marketer. I wonder where did she put her manner knowing she’s an educated one. Also her way of talking to me that I did not harm her by any means yet she eventually annoyed at me, maybe insecurities about me. Oh well, it was good that I did not level her trashy attitude when she told me bad things.

    At first I really want her to be friend but she dont want to, guess that so insecure about me! She was the first before I had the Italian. But they were just once met and short term. When the Italian was with me, we had long term and twice we met for vacations.

    That’s all folks!

    PHwoman22

  • Mike says:

    I agree that you should kick someone out for cheating, but you are not submissive because of America’s imperialistic cultures influence on you. My wife is Thai and submissive. It is not a weakness, she allows me to be the man. And a man needs to take charge because he’s the man. Just use common sense and remove yourself from all of your indoctrination and put yourself in the…um, million years before us that man has inhabited this country. The man’s role is to be receptive of his wife’s opinion, to encourage her to be confident, to listen to her opinion because it is value and needed. It is his duty to allow her yin aspect to help shape how his yang is expressed. And that quality is not present in most men in the American culture, not many other cultures because of American’s imperialism. Just look around, most all countries dress like Westeners. It doesn’t just stop with clothes, you have adopted our crappy mentality. So, I disagree with you. You are like American culture and that ruins your potential.

    • john says:

      Thai girls are submissive when you are still useful. Once they got what they want, its time to say goodbye. They dont even have a feeling. I hardly believe how she ruins my life.

    • Lovelyz says:

      It’s not AMERICA’S IMPERIALISTIC CULTURES INFLUENCE. It’s an HUMAN BEING PHASE or LEVEL OF REBELLION. and it happen that “western country” are the first to be rebel against “dictator, slavery, gouvernement, inequality, discrimination, child abuse….” things that other country are trying to catch up.

      Being “submissive” is not a bad thing but WE ALL KNOW, people will always take for granted everything you do for them. That’s the reason why western women aren’t submissive. They don’t want to depend on a man like it used to be. I’m sure a thai wife depend on her man’s money (and have no other choices). But let her HAVE MONEY and you will see things differently. MONEY CHANGE PEOPLE ATTITUDE.

      Nothing ruins potential. We are what society made us to be. Thailand is a poorer country. Women doesn’t have enough right or education as western women. BUT TRUST ME, when they will, it will be just like western country but asian will be more smarter and colder than western country

  • Adam West says:

    Thai girls stay angry longer than western women and are possibly more violent.
    Thai girls are only better housewives on the surface as they are lazier and don’t do a deep clean.
    Optimistic? I’m thinking more pessimistic if money is tight or they don’t get what they want……

  • dan says:

    I have a Thai wife. She is stunning with fake eyelashes, plenty of makeup, push up bra and after 3 hours at the beauty/hair salon. Waking up in the morning she can border on ugly. I wonder how many “average” thai girls you have seen without makeup? Most SE Asian women won’t let you see them like this until married. Thai women are attractive, but 10 times more than farang women?? that’s pure exaggeration…

    • Annie keller says:

      I’m just wondering where all these guys are?
      Where are the confident men who don’t need to claim “housewife skills” to feel superior?
      Hey white guys….. Don’t lose your manhood like this

  • Aussieredblood says:

    You have got to be kidding me. Sounds like you are pussywhipped to a fat western feminist. In fact you sound like a fat western feminist.

  • Rando says:

    Your depiction of Thai girls is too one dimensional. Petite, happy, smily and simple-minded.

    If you date a Thai girl who speaks fluent English I’m sure you’ll be hearing lots and lots of nagging. Girls are girls, regardless of their origins. The mind works in a very similar way, sure there are social and cultural differences and all, but there must be a reason why Sex & the City is so popular around the world, cause girls can relate their issues with each other. In my opinion, most interracial relationships where parties speak different languages, the most crucial factor of make it or break it, is the communication. Language plays a big role for self-expression, if you can’t convey your thoughts and opinions to your SO, then half of your relationship is missing, at least for me.

    If you date a girl who speaks good English, has international background(been abroad/studied abroad), is from a middle to upper class and also considered “good looking” for the Thai standard and probably in her late 20’s, chances are she will not put up with farang’s nonsense. On the other hand, if you date a young Thai student/bar girl/shop keeper who can barely form a correct sentence in English, limited vocabs, giggles all the time because she has no idea what you are on about, lack of life experiences in general, never boarded an airplane or crossed the borders, of course she’s gonna let you be the boss because it’s easier to nod and tag along….and probably these girls see you as a rare item, a farang bf, so let’s build a shrine for him.

    There are exceptions of course, but I’ve seen many interracial relationships, not only in Thailand and not only between whites and asians, that worked out just fine when the parties can have a healthy verbal communication, but many relationships failed the long run test due to the lack of verbal connection. If you are aiming for casual dating, then it’s all good, but if the Thai girl is expecting more out of the relationship, she will let you know about her discontented feelings.

    Oh, Asian girls in general, are brought up with the “housewives” mindset, meaning that you as a woman you need to care for house, for the husband, for the kids and for your appearance. It’s a form of affection and dedication for loved ones. I clean my bf’s house sometimes cause I do a better job, but I don’t just go there to clean and feed him like a mother would and he does not expect me to, he’s a white boy, but I occasionally his the bed, clean the dishes, hang the laundry as a sign of tidiness so he knows I was not raised as a slob and my family did well with me(my Asianess) and also a form of love and affection in the most practical way.

  • Bob says:

    If you”re a farang and a Thai woman wants you 9 out of 10 are whores..

    • Adam West says:

      Not true, a lot of Thai women don’t like Thai men as they are not very good looking, lazy and deceitful etc…. And they can be unfaithful. My wife doesn’t like Thai men and has never had a Thai boyfriend and when her father wanted her to marry locally she said no thanks. They are only whores when they go for old fat guys…. No disrespect to the old guys intended. The ones that marry these older fellas are desperate for security which means money as they think the young guys are just out to root around and won’t ‘look after them’.

  • Klaas says:

    Wow, I could not aree more!!!!

  • Klaas says:

    Hey Rachel,

    In a way I agree becouse it is what I see to, but not all man are the same and also not all woman are the same! I am on some dating sites and I see more (in a relationship) western girls looking for an other man than asian! In my opinion if you have a relationship there is no place for someone to be on a datingsite!
    I had western girlfriends and one Thai (light skinn, smart, and strong) girlfriend, but out of the only 3 relationships I had its only the one with the Thai lady I miss….. yes she was jealous, and got angry to an agressive point!! But the good moments were just the best in my life ;) and no not the sexmoments becouse that is way down on my list of important things. I just think a match is a match, black, white, pink or yellow I dont care :)

  • Klaas says:

    Hey KLL_JOE I agree with you but not on everything, a lot of Thai ladies are looking for a better way to support their family and have a better life. But its not only the darker or less intelligent ladies looking for farang man ;) my ex girlfriend was not dark at all and not stupid to :)
    Wenn I see a profile of a Thai lady 25 year old looking for a man 18 to 90 year old I am sure that is 100% the lady you describe.
    But still I would choose a Thai girl over a western girl at any given moment, but thats more about the respect and culture, the less lazy attitude and the more caring character.

  • Ashley says:

    Yo I totally agree with Anna. I’m thai, raised here and is studying abroad in California. I think this article, to me, come off as a little discriminating and sexist. Seriously, I can’t believe the author said “because housework is their job”. OKAY that is, like, a huge ass generalization here. I’m disgusted by the phrase. Thai women has more ability to work in other professions than just housework stuff. Yet not every one can even clean properly or cook well. The girls you met are probably act submissive to you because you’re a farang. If you’re a thai guy, trust me itms a different story. Some thai girls act differently when it comes to thai guys versus western guys. Sorry to mention that but it’s true and I’ve seen it myself.

    You are just objectifying thai women and generalizing them. I dont care if you thinj they are prettier than western ladies because thats your preference, but I do give a shit when you just place us like objects and submissive lower class people. You probably just met the wrong girls.

    Also, thai girls can even be bitcher than westerners. They act kind in front of you, but behind your back, you never know what kind of shit they are saying about you. I even got friends like that.

    Anyway, this article is demeaning to an extent.
    Cheers.

  • I think it’s shallow to group everyone in a category. It’s about who a person is. I am sure there are great Thai women and great Western women, and some not so much. lol It should be about the person, not where they are from.

  • Genevieve says:

    Hahahah I’m laughing so hard at all the hate on this forum… The sad part is a majority of them are from the Thai guys or westerner females.

    Before I even start… I would like to introduce myself. Hi everyone!!! I’m Genevieve :) I’m 25 years old and was born in Thailand but currently live in the U.S.A. Yes, I’m 90% Thai, and 10% French. I’m engaged to an… I guess you guys call him “Ferang”.

    1.) I can and will be submissive if I want/need to. We are humans too… We have minds of our own. The reason why I’m submissive is because I respect my fiancé. I don’t respect him because he’s ferang, but because I was taught to respect people that are older and/or guys that you’re with.

    2.) Nagging and clingy? Im none of those. I don’t understand how being naggy or clingy would help with anything. To that westerner chick that said she’s known Thais to be like that… Maybe it’s because they are westernized?! I’m sorry, eventhough I’ve lived here long enough to be classified as a westerner… I don’t believe in that being spoiled rotten stuff. Naggy and clingy girls are spoiled rotten. They don’t work for what they want or need.

    3.) Yes… I’m forgiving but forgiving comes with draw backs. Just because I forgive you… Does not mean I’ve fully healed and forgotten. I mean… I’m not stupid and I don’t think you’d want someone stupid as an gf? If my fiancé cheated on me… I would forgive him but I wouldnt feel the same love.

    4.) I work and clean. I only do that because that was how I was raised. I don’t want my fiancé doing the dishes because to me his hands are made to protect and work hard labors. However, that doesn’t mean he can’t take out the garbage!

    5.) Compromising is communication. You need communication in every single relationship in order for it to survive the harsh elements. Compromising isnt a bad thing… So why make it sound bad?

    6.) Looks… I’m sorry but I wouldn’t want ANY guy to be with me because of my looks. Looks don’t last. And if you were to ask my fiancé why he wants to be with me… He would tell you because of my personality and my looks is just the cherry toppling to the ice cream. Like all other races… We do have ugly Thai girls too ???. You’re just fortunate to meet pretty ones.

    7.) I AM NOTHING CLOSE TO BEING A GOLD DIGGER… lol. Yes, I can get rich guys… Doesn’t have to be ferang to have money hahaha. My fiancé does not have money… If anything I have more than him. To the poster that said we are just in it for money… That’s just sad to say we are with ferangs because they have money? Why don’t you have money? Get up and work! Don’t degrade us because you’re broke or dont have money.

    I’m done! *takes a bow*