The Pros and Cons of Online Dating Sites in Thailand

Last updated: April 17th, 2015 | in Thai Girls

Thai people love the internet. Thai people love social media. And of course Thai people also love online dating sites. In fact there are more dating sites just in Thai language than there are in English but that doesn’t mean the range of available Thai-Farang oriented sites isn’t huge for foreigners seeking to arrange dates with Thai girls over the internet. While it’s not just important to sign up for one or more of the most popular Thai dating sites like Thai Friendy, there’s also the question what are the pros and cons of spending time on the internet trying to get girls meet you compared to by just walking around the mall and try your luck there.

First and most important, Thai dating sites are super efficient and it really works. You can basically arrange dates with Thai girls for every day of the week, if you want even several within the same day. And that all by just sitting conveniently on your laptop or on your smartphone anywhere you want. I had girls that I chatted with for a few days and as I suggested her to come over to my room to watch a movie she goes yeah sure why not. Of course that doesn’t happen all the time so otherwise you would just meet up and go for a normal date with your Thai girl.

Sure it’s a lot of fun to meet a first contact with Thai girls in the real world but sometimes you don’t feel like going out, especially the longer you’re living and working in Thailand there are more and more evenings where you just want to take it easy, hang out in your room and then it’s fun to chat with the girls over the internet – or arrange a date somewhere near your place for the same evening.

The Pros and Cons of Dating Sites in Thailand

You don’t even have to live in Thailand to have fun with these dating sites, a Thai girl won’t stop talking to you if you say you are not in Thailand. So if you’re planing your next holiday you can arrange a few dates in advance to make the most of your time with pretty cool girls if you’re not out to spend all the time in the bars.

Thai dating sites are generally also free. You may know from dating sites in your home country that you have to pay for a membership even if you only want to send and receive messages or upload pictures but all these basic functions are totally free for Thai dating sites, they will give you some other cool incentives instead to sign up as a premium member or whatever but you don’t need all that for arranging at least several dates with hot Thai chicks every week – for free. Maybe that’s also because the competition is just extremely huge among old and ever new sites coming up.

Another advantage of Thai dating sites versus going out to bars and clubs to hook up with girls is that it’s generally also a lot cheaper. While you might end up paying her a lot of drinks in the club and not being sure if she’s freelancing or not you can have it so much cheaper by just taking her out for dinner and then straight to your room for dessert. Sure there are lots of  “money girls” on dating websites too but if you get some experience using them you will know what type of girl you’re about to arrange a date with.

If you have ever used a western online dating site you know that it’s always you as the guy that makes the first move, who writes the first message to a girl just like in real life. For Thai dating sites however you can check your inbox once a week and it’s not unusual to find more than ten messages of new Thai girls that want to be your friend.

You see there are so many cool things about all the Thai dating sites and I don’t really see too many cons or disadvantages of Thai dating sites. Basically they are free so you can’t lose anything. One of the downsides might be that lots of girls have signed up at several dating sites and may hang out with other foreigners all the time. So if they’re good in English you know it’s not because they were hard working students. But then that’s the same thing if you meet girls in the clubs.

There are so many Thai dating websites and if your’e new to the whole thing it’s hard to know which ones are worth signing up for. That’s why I wrote that post about the currently best Thai dating sites to give you a clear idea about which ones not just foreign guys but more important Thai girls like to use most.

To sum it all up – the pros of Thai dating sites definitely outweigh the cons and it’s so much fun and super easy to meet new girls on a regular basis. Would be interesting to hear your take – do you use Thai dating sites and what do you like or not like about them?

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8 Comments on "The Pros and Cons of Online Dating Sites in Thailand"


you mentioned that there are more thai language dating sites for thailand. what are some of these? thanks


I find an occasional message from Thai women on Thai Love Links but they are always old and desperate and living in the provinces. With Thai Friendly, I feel the Thai girls, the good looking ones, have waaaay too many farang losers saying anything they think the girls want to hear so they can f**k them. Yeah I’ve dated an slept with a few but it was along slog each time. Not as easy as open inbox, hey, wanna date, ok! Back to mine for desert? ok! Deal done. NEVER!

But maybe that’s just me… hehe.


You find that you normally meet normal girls via the dating sites or semi-pros looking for low key sponsors?