What is a Butterfly in Thailand?

Last updated: September 6th, 2014 | in Learn Thai | Thai Girls

If a Thai girl tells you she thinks you are a butterfly don’t worry it’s nothing bad, she just thinks you are a playboy, have sex with a lot of other girls and are unable to have a serious relationship. “Butterfly” is one of these words Thai people gave a new meaning and just use them when talking to foreigners in English, similar to “boom boom” the common expression for “to fuck”. Thai people never use the Thai translation of these words when talking to eachother.

Butterfly in Thai = pĕe sêua (ผีเสื้อ)

So a Thai girl will never tell a Thai guy he is a pĕe sêua, a butterfly. Of course there is a Thai word for playboy and if you speak Thai with the girl she will use that one instead:

Playboy in Thai = kon jâo chóo (คนเจ้าชู้)

Kon is the Thai word for person and jâo chóo the adjective that describes the habit of guys having serveral girlfriends (what Thai people call Giks). Of course it’s not just guys that can be playboys, playgirls, butterflies or whatever you can say both, if she talks to you in English she will say butterfly (many Thai people don’t even know that word if their English is bad) and if she talks to you in Thai she would say “khun bpen kon jâo chóo” – “You are a playboy.”

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If you see a Thai girl that has a butterfly tattoo you know straight away that she has lots of farang boyfriends. Most of these girls are hookers. Good Thai girls generally don’t have tattoos at all and if you see a butterfly tattoo on her sexy shoulder you know that she’s probably not the type of girl you want to have a relationship with. But of course that doesn’t mean that it’s not fun to hang out with her.

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Redcat

Redcat lives his dream by living and traveling in Thailand. On Thailand Redcat he shares his experiences and advice to all aspects of (night)life in Thailand. Redcat is also fluent in Thai both spoken and written and is author of the books Thai Beginner’s Course and Thai Love Course.

9 Responses

  • Greg says:

    Hi, just here too confirm that she actually was a bargirl. Met up with here friend today (back in the place we’ve met first time) and after some drinks she told me all. I am not sad, feel happy after all but stupid at the same time I did not found that out myself lol.

    Well had sex with many girls since I left here place so that’s cool, but it still feels like a big rookie mistake Yikes!

    So this ends our conversation huh you were right about it and I am glad you told me about it. We can always learn right. I am just happy I never paid money for here;-) thanks and take care bro!

  • Greg says:

    Hi there,

    You’re site is so informative and really helpfull for a first timer in Thailand like me. Although I do not go to bars and hooker areas (maybe in the future for the experience) Early guy in my 20’s so in my short stay I’ve met a lot of thai woman. My first experience was with a really cute thai which I stayed a week with before moving to another place (traveling around the country) And I loved the time we had of course I’ve paid for everything when we go out and about but I refused too pay for 7-eleven things like what the hell?

    She has a tattoo of three little cute butterflys which I really liked at the time (lol what did I know?) beside that she even has an earring of a playboy bunny… After asking why she said didn’t know what it was..

    She was divorced and said she only been with 3 other guys since. I ended up believing everything and the day before I left she kept tripping about me finding another girl easy (which I did) At the time I really liked her. She said she does massage, and pretty sure she was not a bargirl. Most of the time we met up at night and she never asked for money.

    Just haved a huge laugh after reading this blog post. Thanks a lot would never knew without reading this. Kinda long post sorry for that, Just wanted to share with you and give the veterans around here a good laugh;-)

    Besides that I have a queation on which I cannot find a clear answer. after meeting and talking with a lot of local thai people I heard that it is kinda normal for a thai girl/boy to have a Gik.

    So is it normal for every thai to have a Gik? and you can be sure if you date a thai girl that she sleeps with other man for fun. And you can sleep with another girl too?

    Keep up the good work man

    Cheers!

    • Redcat says:

      Hey Greg, certainly not every Thai has giks (usually it’s more the guys than the girls who are “butterflies”). But if she’s got butterfly tattoos that’s quite a clear sign that she is, well, “playful” and not very serious about relationships – at least at the time she had her tattoo done. Then it’s also no surprise really that she doesn’t want to pay for the little things at the 7 Eleven. Sorry but how you wrote it sounds like she’s a bar girl. No thing to worry though, just know that she’s probably seeing other guys too when she’s got the opportunity.

      • Greg says:

        Hey, thanks for the response. Well not sure about that we met at a regular place (at night though) had sex many times, on many accasions and she never asked for money. I just took here out once too the movies.

        But if it sounds like it maybe she was and then I am happy she didn’t hand me the bill afterwards haha;-)

        Thanks for the explanation on the gik part and keep up the good work with your website man, love it!

  • Paul says:

    How acurate is this depiction of the butterfly on the shoulder IE hooker? just interested to know if you can shed some more light on this.. thanks

  • Rank says:

    Thank you for the very accurate and informative articles you have written. I have been to Thailand more than sixteen times but I still find the stuff you have written very useful and spot-on. Yes, you are living the dream man!
    Best regards,
    Rank


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